How do you handle this fine line??

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a) she already writes in a notebook daily.

b) i probably am already [censored], as we're already past the 3 year mark.

c) she's italian, which means a vicious temper and mean streak. i certainly have cut her off and told her that i'd listen later or something, but that i just can't take it right now, but that usually ends up being -ev...

thing is, it sometimes feels like she's yelling at ME, when she's bitching about people at work. it just has that same tone, and it truly drives me up a wall.

however, if i bring it up, she stomps off and i have to grovel, and then STILL END UP LISTENING TO HER STORIES about people i've never met.