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#41
09-21-2007, 11:29 AM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
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LOL at thinking that is baller. You didn't hear someone and asked for a clarification = balla? Sweet my Granddad must be the biggest balla out. [/ QUOTE ] LOL moran. 
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#42
09-21-2007, 11:34 AM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
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[ QUOTE ] It's not "balla", but it was a very good question to ask(even if you didn't happen to mis-hear her). She now knows that you're interested, without you having to make other moves/comments that might result in akwardness. How'd the rest of the convo go from there? [/ QUOTE ] Well I'd say that in terms of looks she's nothing stunning so I'm pretty relaxed around her so I just took it as a "oh ok cool" kinda thing and moved on from there. [/ QUOTE ] The first post was not baller at all, but you had a golden opportunity. If you followed up with,"ok good, then I can take you to one this weekend." you would have been baller.
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#43
09-21-2007, 11:44 AM
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[ QUOTE ] any predicament with "saw her on the bus" is unballa [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] LOL. Also, I would have followed up her comment with a question phrased about her boyfriend like "So, how long has your boyfriend been in the frat?"
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#44
09-21-2007, 12:04 PM
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[ QUOTE ] I think that it's somewhat baller - definitely better than what a guy like dids would do. Guys like dids would be too scared to clarify the situation then die inside and rush home to jerk off to what "could have been." [/ QUOTE ] LOL. [/ QUOTE ] Needed to be quoted again for hilariousness.
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#45
09-21-2007, 12:17 PM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
girls with boyfriends are 10x more attractive. thus, this is not baller.
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#46
09-21-2007, 12:42 PM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
What bus do you take?
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#47
09-21-2007, 02:03 PM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] It's not "balla", but it was a very good question to ask(even if you didn't happen to mis-hear her). She now knows that you're interested, without you having to make other moves/comments that might result in akwardness. How'd the rest of the convo go from there? [/ QUOTE ] Well I'd say that in terms of looks she's nothing stunning so I'm pretty relaxed around her so I just took it as a "oh ok cool" kinda thing and moved on from there. [/ QUOTE ] The first post was not baller at all, but you had a golden opportunity. If you followed up with,"ok good, then I can take you to one this weekend." you would have been baller. [/ QUOTE ] I am still learning about humans; more specifically about the art of courting. That being said, I don't know why so many of you are in such a rush to "take a girl out." I'll be seeing her for at least twice a week for the whole term so why is there any reason to rush things? OBVSLY I don't want to end up in the friendzone but there's no reason to rush things when I will be seeing her so often. It's not like I'm at a coffee shop and will never see the girl again.
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#49
09-21-2007, 04:01 PM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
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I tend to be better at expressing my feelings & thoughts through writing than on the spot during conversation, so here goes. One of the fears you expressed is that our friendship would be ruined if we kissed; yet, introducing feelings like this into a friendship is going to change things regardless of how much you may want them to stay the same. I can't look at you without thinking about kissing you; can we really pretend that isn't there? I love the way it felt when our eyes met across the table countless times in lab, and how just through this look you could convey the mounds of frustration that room caused you along with the smallest and most beautiful hint of grace that you had someone to share it with. I can't and won't pretend the spark in your eyes doesn't bring a smile to my face when our gazes meet. You also seemed worried that if we kissed, it would somehow compromise the relationship you have with your summer boyfriend; if that's the case, then what about the feelings we already share? If you really don't feel anything for me romantically then that's one thing, and I understand; but, it doesn't seem to me like that's the case. If you're worried that adjusting to your summer life at home is going to be difficult as a result of kissing me, how will avoiding this kiss without addressing those feelings inside fix the problem? Plus, I come with references lauding my talent at kissing; though I admit to being a bit rusty at the art, I strongly believe that only a night or so's worth of practice would return me to the top of my game. Your assistance in this area would be greatly compensated as you reap the rewards of enjoying many passionate kisses with me, the likes of which it is quite possible you have never felt before. We can blissfully enjoy this last week that we have together by kissing repeatedly without reservation or restraint; we can look back upon it and smile & laugh at the fleeting bond we shared. This, to me, is a far better alternative than ignoring the feelings we both know are there and awkwardly dancing around them for as long as we remain friends. I feel lucky to have met a mature, sexy, and intelligent girl like you as I finish my college career, and I can't think of a better way to spend my last week than to share my last college fling, no strings attached, with you. To say that it "isn't fair" isn't good enough. My happiness, and yours, deserve better than to be cast aside over an arbitrary judgement of what's "fair." And nothing right now could make me happier than to close my eyes and softly place my lips onto yours. [/ QUOTE ]
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#50
09-21-2007, 04:38 PM
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Re: Was this baller? (thing i said to a girl)
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two words: ladder theory you make your jump asap, if you fall into the abyss, it's over, move on, next girl [/ QUOTE ] this needs to be QFT. You dont want to be her friend in almost every instance of knowing a girl, that is just the way it works. So [censored] it, go for it right away. Tell her you think she looks good. Tell her you want to take her out. Let her know that you are interested and that you would SIIHP any time she wants you to. You dont have to say it like that (even though sometimes it works) but let it be known. This way you can figure out fast if it is worth your time. If she balks and says "No I dont think so", you can just say ok, no worries, ill got SIIHP your friends and let them tell you how I roll.
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