Dear Bison: March 2006

[bisonbison]

Long time listener, first time caller. Been with the gf for a year and a half, things going great etc etc. I am wondering if in your "professional" opinion if moving in together in a new city would be detriment to the relationship? Her graduate school and my job are in the same city. We currently see each other daily and usually are at one person's apt or the others at all time when together. Good plan or no?

Dear Russ,

Questions for both of you, from roughly most to roughly least important:

Are you happy that you spend so much time together?
Do you feel there's good communication and fair give and take between you?
Are you comfortable sharing expenses with this person?
Do you have similar living styles/levels of cleanliness?