Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Magellan]

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lol if i had known you were gonna do that i prob wouldve brushed my teeth or something, so sorry about the minestrone soup thing lol

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Ummm, wtf? You don't appear to be quoting from this thread here so....wtf?

Also, update please.

[Doc7]

quote from her on aim. made out with her for 10-15 minutes. no more details to tell you at the moment, postgame thinking/discussion is occuring. will update tomorrow.

[Magellan]

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postgame thinking/discussion is occuring.

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What's to think about? She has told you she wants to [censored] you, you say you like her, what else is there to do but [censored] her???

I get the idea about how much she means to you, but you really need to take her down from the pedestal you've put her on, relax, and go for it.

If this chick is good to go now, she's not going to wait for ever.

[Doc7]

now the 2nd thoughts are entirely on her end, Mag.

[Phil153]

Are you intentionally being thick or do you not understand these two passages:


"lol if i had known you were gonna do that i prob wouldve brushed my teeth or something, so sorry about the minestrone soup thing lol"

"quote from her on aim. made out with her for 10-15 minutes. no more details to tell you at the moment, postgame thinking/discussion is occuring. will update tomorrow.

The poor fellow just made out with a girl he's like for ages. Give him time to cool down.

Also, congrats doc. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Magellan]

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Are you intentionally being thick or do you not understand these two passages:


"lol if i had known you were gonna do that i prob wouldve brushed my teeth or something, so sorry about the minestrone soup thing lol"

"quote from her on aim. made out with her for 10-15 minutes. no more details to tell you at the moment, postgame thinking/discussion is occuring. will update tomorrow.

The poor fellow just made out with a girl he's like for ages. Give him time to cool down.

Also, congrats doc. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Are you intentionally being thick or have you not followed this thread? This girl has as much said "Please [censored] me", and Doc making out with her is supposed to be cause for excitement? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

This type of human interaction isn't entirely logical and there is way too much "thinking" time going on on both sides of the fence. Doc is soon going to lose his opportunity and be crushed wondering what if? (he had just gone for it)

[Phil153]

Excitement isn't the word. Relief is more like. I didn't think he even had it in him to even kiss her so cut the dude a break. Also, it sounds like she's not really into him so he's best off waiting till the right time to maximize the horny bored sympathy [censored] EV. Trying to SIIHP right away could be a deal breaker.

[Magellan]

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now the 2nd thoughts are entirely on her end, Mag.

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Doc, Doc, Doc. If this girl "thinks" about this situation she will come up with this: "Ummm, I have made it clear I want to [censored] this guy who apparently really likes me, yet he musn't really be into me 'cause he continues to deny me access to his cock. This is all turning into to too much of a headache, maybe I'll just find another guy to satisfy my womanly needs."

What else could she possibly come up with here?

Well done on making out with her but that's not all she wants. Seriously, if you would just take charge of the situation and do something to excite this girl, there would be nothing left to think about. Catch up with her, tell her that enough is enough, that you've both thought waaaaay too much about things, and that you have the answer. Don't even let her say anything here, just put the moves on.

There is only one outcome that will come out of her "thinking" about things. She doesn't need you telling her you want her (not that exciting), you have to show her (exciting).

Doc, judging by your latest report your time is running out. I'm gonna spell this out once more: If this chick keeps "thinking" about things, it's all gonna end badly for you. If you make it so that she doesn't have to think anymore, by sucking up the courage and giving her what she has already asked you for, it's happy days.

DON'T [censored] THIS UP!!!

[Magellan]

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cut the dude a break.

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I'm just trying to help him give both of these people what they want.

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Also, it sounds like she's not really into him

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Well she has mentioned having sex with him so I beg to differ. Any hesitation she is showing, I think, is because Doc is being too reluctant to just go for it.

[Blarg]

I'd concur that sex isn't about thinking(unless you're thinking about things like birth control that is), and girls don't like it put in that realm -- nobody does really. That sucks the magic out of it and drags it toward the plodding everyday stuff of living, like doing your taxes or folding laundry. Sex is supposed to be exciting and different, maybe break a few rules, and spontaneity really helps a lot there. Few of even the most level-headed women don't like the idea of being swept off their feet.

Perhaps you're on your way and maybe have wised up and won't profit by any more ideas or advice from anybody else at this point. If so, good for you, and grats on finally having the sack to get this far.

But I wonder -- did you finally get to the face sucking by asking her if you could kiss her before planting one on her? And if so or if not, do you plan to approach sex by the same slow, excruciating, contractual, planned degrees that you did smooching?

I'm wondering if the next step is going to be an agonizingly stiff replay of the first.