Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

[Los Feliz Slim]

Waiter, I'll have what TxSteve is having, and make it a double.

[DcifrThs]

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Had you told him that you were completely in love with this girl?

Had you told her that you were completely in love with her?

Had you and the girl talked about any possibility of 'you two' before?

As much as this crushes you, unless all three of those things happened, I can't see you having anyone to be mad at really.

Nothing worse though, sorry man. Go pick up another hottie and enjoy yourself.

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Yes to all of those. She wanted to "see what would happen" last night.

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Explain what she meant by 'see what happen last night' please.

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Most likely if we had romantic chemistry. She's only slept with one other guy before (her last boyfriend of 8 months), so even when drunk she hasn't pulled a thing like this before (that I know of at least).

Also, my friend was nowhere near out of his mind drunk if that counts for anything.

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she obviously didn't feel the romantic chemistry with you.

maybe her sister told her some details about your best friend that she wanted to see for herself (subconsciously)

sux dude, but h8ing friends for doing sh*t like this is a losing proposition. workign things out after possibly punching him in the stomach (if he knew you were totally in love w/ the girl and that she came to hang out w/ you) not too hard shouldn't be difficult [img]/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

Barron

[MikalSjekson]

If this happened to me, I'll say to my freind he got some serious game, but i'll beat the [censored] out of him. That's so [censored] up.

[SonofDjugashvili]

Haven't finished reading the thread, but you should have joined them and SIIHP for some DP action. That much is certain. Otherwise, she clearly wasn't into you.

[eastcoaster]

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i think that the friends' ex-girlfriend probably slept with one of the sister's love interests....

and this was all an elaborate scheme by the sister to exact revenge on the ex girlfriend by sleeping with the friend.

op was just an innocent casualty.

wow. i bet that doesn't make any sense

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winnar

[Austiger]

OP- Tell her sister. (preferably before or after banging her.)

[Phil153]

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OP- Tell her sister. (preferably before or after banging her.)

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Yes, definitely not during.

[Burdzthewurd]

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i think that the friends' ex-girlfriend probably slept with one of the sister's love interests....

and this was all an elaborate scheme by the sister to exact revenge on the ex girlfriend by sleeping with the friend.

op was just an innocent casualty.

wow. i bet that doesn't make any sense

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winnar

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Haha, if only that were true, but tis' not, good answer though.

Others,

The "brother" thing makes a lot of sense, though she is extremely close with her sister and would have to know there would be serious consequences if said sister/ex-gf found out about this (and she will find out), but hey she was drunk, probably didn't give a damn.

In the end, maintaining a friendship with her, even if it's Friend Zone forever>>>>>staying friends with this idiot, as he's gone out of his way on multiple occasions when drunk to embarass me severely (doing a battle rap about how my dick is small in front of a girl I liked, jumping me at his birthday party to impress his girlfriend). It's clear he has no respect for me whatsoever (and it shouldn't matter how much of a pussy I am if he considers me his best friend), and that he never will.

Although I obviously cannot put myself in her shoes, she wanted sex, she was drunk, she liked the other guy, I did a poor job not sealing the deal or she never gave a crap in the first place. Not a fan of what went down, and according to responses it's more a problem of him accepting then her offering. On the other hand, she might have no reason to ever speak to me again. That I don't know.

Again, thanks for constructive criticism and/or funny disses all.

[KotOD]

Re: Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

The girl of your dreams is a moving target. You didn't shoot at the last one -- time to move the target.

[TxSteve]

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Waiter, I'll have what TxSteve is having, and make it a double.

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a double??
what? do you have some kind of death wish?

your next post will look like this:

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