Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Magellan]

To second the Clarkmeister, you're a wreck! You're getting way too neurotic about the whole thing. You're not a robot dude, she can't just tell you that there might be something more than friendship on the horizon (knowing full well how you feel) and expect you just to kick back while she ponders things. It's obvious you're trying to do the right thing by her (commendable) but it's affecting you to the point that it's time to sort out where you stand. "Love" and associated feelings aren't necessarily logical and she won't definitely be able to work out what she wants just by thinking about it. IT'S TIME TO PUT THE MOVES ON! The hard part is that your best chance of getting the response you want is by being relaxed and spontaneous about it. Don't sit there getting tense agonising over it and giving yourself countdowns. So, have a few beverages friday night, set a relaxed and light-hearted mood (joke around with her etc.), and before you're both too smashed plant one on her.

(If by chance she brings up the situation on the night before you make a move, say something like "let's not get into that tonight, we can thrash it out some other time".)