Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[chesspain]

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the paxil is having the opposite effect on her sex drive, she has told me numerous times she can't "get off" (in quotes to seem less crude lol) now due to the paxil.

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So you've been hanging around forever in the "friend zone," convincing yourself that you are in love with a girl who is dishing to you like you are one of her girlfriends. And she now says she wants to get physical with you at the same time she is losing her sexual responsiveness.

This sounds like the plot to some John Hughes movie.

[Doc7]

lol exactly! though not sure about John Hughes movies, will google at some point.

[IggyWH]

Paxil f'ed me up more than it did any help. Matter of fact, I don't think it did any help.

[chesspain]

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I stopped taking Paxil and told my psychiatrist to F off when he acted like my greatly diminished sex drive was a side effect I should deal with.


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So he didn't offer you the option of taking a small dose of Wellbutrin along with the Paxil? Wellbutrin is very effective at counteracting the pesky sexual and fatiguing side effects of SSRIs.

[Doc7]

lol this girl has a crazy sex drive, she just can't "get off, even when I am trying!"

[Phil153]

To be honest, you sound like a loser. Girls don't [censored] losers.

Keep it simple. Decide whether you want to [censored] her or not. Then act accordingly. The emotional stuff you talk about is just pent up sexual frustration combined with bitterness that she [censored] other guys while using you as a friend. Believe me, when you're grinding away in her [censored] none of that matters any more.

Stop worrying about doing the right thing all the time. And stop trying to find motivations for her actions. Maybe the Paxil is clouding her judgement. Maybe not. So what? She sounds like she's [censored] a few assholes already, so maybe her judgement wasn't that good to begin with. She sounds like she'd do better with you than her regular stallions anyway.

So start thinking about what you want or don't want, and act accordingly. It'll make you and your future girlfriends much happier.

[New001]

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lol this girl has a crazy sex drive, she just can't "get off, even when I am trying!"

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Just offer to help her.

[kyro]

Interesting. There wasn't anything in any of his posts that suggested he was a loser. You sound like a tool.

[Doc7]

Yah geez, sorry for not wanting to just screw anything that moves and looks my way (Or at least, acting on those desires [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] )

[WhoIam]

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the paxil is having the opposite effect on her sex drive, she has told me numerous times she can't "get off" (in quotes to seem less crude lol) now due to the paxil.

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This is perfect, now you don't have to be bothered with annoyances like "technique" or "staying power"