Girl I'm dating suddenly has a boyfriend - what's my play?

[somapopper]

Yeah, buddy you're out of the game. That injury looked season ending too, so a 4th quarter return, while not impossible, is probably out of the question.

This girl won't be touching your naughty bits. If you're OK with that, by all means keep going to movies with her.

[neuroman]

Ask her on another "date" except this time stand her up.

[nath]

Yeah, wait a minute... it doesn't sound like anything physical happened. You aren't dating.

[Five-Star]

Let's examine your post

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1. I've known the girl in question for 6 or 7 years
2. (today she's 20, I'm 26).
3. She always seemed quite interested in going to the movies, meeting for a drink or whatever,
4. Since then, we have been out for dinner once and been to the movies twice (with a lot of cocktails and good conversation afterwards).
5. But last time, she casually mentioned that she now has a boyfriend
6. The weird thing is that she didn't do this in a "Look-we-must-talk-I-have-a-boyfriend-now-so-we-should-stop-meeting-the-way-we-recently-did" sort of way, but it was more like "Tonight was great as usual, when will we next go out? Oh, next Thursday is bad, I've already promised my new boyfriend to do [whatever it was]".

7. I'm really confused here.
8. Is all of this a clear-cut indication that she considers me to be a friend and nothing more, and what's my play here?

9. FWIW, I know of at least two short-term relationships she has had in the past (and broke up herself after some weeks), so she is not the kind of girl where the fact that she has a boyfriend necessarily means that she thinks she has found the love of her life or something.



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1. Then how did you not know that she had a boyfriend? Even casual friends you know if they have someone in their life
2. The things wrong with this sentence, because I am sure there are no mid-20 graduate students at this school or something to hit on
3. This sentence is phrased for someone older that a 20 year old. Yes I understand fake ID's and people, gasp, under 21 do drink. But if it's meeting up for coffee, you say coffee, not a drink.
4. This is not dating
5. Now you know it’s not dating
6. She doesn’t see it as dating
7. I can’t see for the life of me how
8. It’s great when people are able to answer their own questions and you don’t have one, move on
9. Then why are you even trying to be with her?
10. You are a troll and this is not a real problem. NosNos?

[Spacemoose]

Offer to SIIHP where H = His. parley this into a threesome. then cry yourself to sleep because she likes him better.

[mrkilla]

Whats with the massive amount of "new user" posts recently. It must be troll season

[Tom1975]

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Whats with the massive amount of "new user" posts recently. It must be troll season

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I think NOS1NOS2 got a new IP address.

[edfurlong]

Nos was far less subtle, and kinda sorta funny after a while. It's still possible though I guess.

[zac7179]

U are stuck in the friend zone........do not pass go do0 not collect $200, which means move on, stay her friend if u like but there is no chance of going anywhere with her

[stinkypete]

schneids is that you?