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#61
09-13-2006, 04:09 PM
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Re: Do you Cheat?
Married 10 years, never cheated, never will.
I work for an event management company and the amount of cheating we see that goes on at events was very surprising to me, at first. Our company is hired by outside firms to run their company sales events, incentive trips, and stuff like that. We often see guys who win the incentive trips that bring their mistresses with them, and not their wives. We also see guys at the sales meetings who hook up with any random ho they find in the hotel bar. So, at least from my point of view, I can see how some guys might think that 'every' guy cheats, but I have to agree with the others who have already said that these guys are just trying to convince themselves of it, so they don't feel so guilty. 
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#62
09-13-2006, 04:15 PM
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Re: Do you Cheat?
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liquidboss, do you think you are happy with your wants? do you think you will have peace and happiness in your life? I'm curious as to what it is that you want in a gf and a relationship. [/ QUOTE ] I am very happy with life, in fact I'm one of the happiest people I know. I am very happy with my girlfriend, she makes my life much better. And it's nice to have a girl that likes to watch me bang other girls. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] I just need more sex than one woman can give me. [ QUOTE ] liquidboss, have you ever cheated on someone that you "loved"? if so, did you really love her? [/ QUOTE ] Most of my girlfriends I was not "in love" with, but I there were a few that I believe I truly loved. I still took the opportunity to [censored] another when I got the chance though. I guess it really boils down to the fact that sex and love are completely seperate in my life. I know most people can't do this, but I seem to have a talent for it.
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#63
09-13-2006, 04:24 PM
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Re: Do you Cheat?
No, I don't cheat at anything, but I'm not a guy! If guys want lots of different women that is fine but they need to stay single. Make up your minds, eh! We ain't yer mommies while you go out to play "horny bachelor!"
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#64
09-13-2006, 04:27 PM
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I guess it really boils down to the fact that sex and love are completely seperate in my life. I know most people can't do this, but I seem to have a talent for it. [/ QUOTE ] If you replaced "People" with "Women" above I would agree wholeheartedly. The OP originated by the fact that my friend said exactly what you wrote above. PLus that everyone cheats [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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#65
09-13-2006, 04:33 PM
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No, I don't cheat at anything, but I'm not a guy! If guys want lots of different women that is fine but they need to stay single. Make up your minds, eh! We ain't yer mommies while you go out to play "horny bachelor!" [/ QUOTE ] It is good to hear that you don't cheat. But a female perspective would be very helful in this issue. Do you know of friends who cheat? Or have been cheated on? WHat do the cheaters say to excuse their behaviour? How do the cheated feel? I would like to hear about this from your uniquely female perspective.
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#66
09-13-2006, 04:43 PM
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[ QUOTE ] I guess it really boils down to the fact that sex and love are completely seperate in my life. I know most people can't do this, but I seem to have a talent for it. [/ QUOTE ] If you replaced "People" with "Women" above I would agree wholeheartedly. The OP originated by the fact that my friend said exactly what you wrote above. PLus that everyone cheats [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] I agree that it is much more unlikely for a woman be able to do this, but there are a lot of men who can't seperate the two either. Just look at some of the responses in this thread. Men cheat for sex, women cheat because they are lacking some emotion in their relationship.
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#67
09-13-2006, 04:54 PM
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As for the rub-n-tug question, I think that's a very fine line. A lot of guys go to strip clubs, many without mentioning it to the Ms, some with her approval. What occurs in a lap dance is not qualitatively much different from a rub-n-tug IMO. Ms. Thumb doesn't mind strip clubs on special occasions or in foreign countries and I have to think she'd feel roughly the same about a yank job from a Thai masseuse. I think it would be an issue only if it became a habit. [/ QUOTE ] At least in the strip clubs I've been to, there's a huge difference: you don't touch the strippers with your hands. In a rub-n-tug, someone touches your "private area" with their hands.
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#69
09-13-2006, 04:58 PM
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Do any of you think some people are monogomous as a cop out to the fact that they can't fulfill their natural sexual urges completely? Then they pretend like its what they really want? [/ QUOTE ] Bill Maher put it best when he said that most marriages take place because one of the people is pregnant, rich, or desperate.
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#70
09-13-2006, 05:03 PM
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My current girlfriend and I have been invovled in more 3somes than I can remember, with 10-15 different girls, and I still want more variety. What can I say? [/ QUOTE ] You could start with the how!
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