Do you Cheat?

[RunyonAve]

[ QUOTE ]
Pretty much a text book case of a girl who panicks and decides it is time to be married then grabs on to the guy who makes the most money at the time. Gets off on the concept of being a married woman and is committed to sticking it out with him as long as he's rich, but all other rules are bendable because she is a gold digger. I'd imagine this is a common attitude.

[/ QUOTE ]

FYP

[TPupAZ]

Not even touching this one.

[liquidboss]

[ QUOTE ]
I am still waiting for some of you cheaters to create gimmick accounts and post your exploits!!!

[/ QUOTE ]

Who needs a gimmick account, I'll come right out and say it. I'm not married but I've cheated on every girlfriend I've ever had, serious or not. I'm not really sure why I do it, although I think it's related to the other thread about regretting sex you've turned down, I've never had to deal with that. I've only turned down sex with girls I don't want to have sex with, and therefore will never regret. I also feel like I'm constantly wanting something new when it comes to sex. My current girlfriend and I have been invovled in more 3somes than I can remember, with 10-15 different girls, and I still want more variety. What can I say?

Go ahead and flame me about morals and how do I look at myself in the mirror, it doesn't bother me much. Guilt is like a bag of rocks, you just have to set it down and you don't feel it's weight anymore. If anyone has serious questions I would be happy to answer.

[CheckCheckFold]

liquidboss, do you think you are happy with your wants? do you think you will have peace and happiness in your life? I'm curious as to what it is that you want in a gf and a relationship.

[thirddan]

liquidboss, have you ever cheated on someone that you "loved"? if so, did you really love her?

[CamelZoo]

he knows what he wants and is getting it right now. if later what he wants is a wife to be faithful to, i'm sure he will do that. but in some weird way i applaud him b/c he knows what he wants and found somebody who has the same ideals/morals. it's a lot worse when somebody pretends to have a certain moral code and breaks it with idiotic rationalizations and convenient exceptions to it. at least he has the balls to be true to himself, not to mention his gf.

[WayAbvPar]

Today is my 3 year annivesary. Never cheated, never will. I still find other women attractive (I am married, not dead), but I would never do anything to hurt my wife.

I might have to look into that 40th birthday thing though [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[GreywolfNYC]

I was married for 11 years and never cheated. Not even once, although my psychotic ex-wife constantly accused me of it.

I've been in another relationship for almost 5 years with a wonderful, bisexual girl. Cheating is really irrelevant now. (Yes, that means exactly what you think it means. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img])

[AsH_KeTcHuM]

Do any of you think some people are monogomous as a cop out to the fact that they can't fulfill their natural sexual urges completely? Then they pretend like its what they really want?

[NT!]

[ QUOTE ]
14 yrs, never cheated. Then again since the celebrities I most resemble are Howdy Doody and Poindexter from "Revenge of the Nerds" the ladies aren't exactly beating down my door to have an affair. Thus I can't exactly take a whole lot of credit for being faithful since I've never had the opportunity. I'd like to think I'd do the right thing, though.

[/ QUOTE ]

Gotta love the realistic self-assessment. Respeck.

I have been in a serious relationship for the last 4 years, basically functions like a marriage at this point. Never cheated.

As for the rub-n-tug question, I think that's a very fine line. A lot of guys go to strip clubs, many without mentioning it to the Ms, some with her approval. What occurs in a lap dance is not qualitatively much different from a rub-n-tug IMO. Ms. Thumb doesn't mind strip clubs on special occasions or in foreign countries and I have to think she'd feel roughly the same about a yank job from a Thai masseuse. I think it would be an issue only if it became a habit.

But I have a pretty cool girlfriend, I don't know about you guys. I look down on cheating and would have a very hard time continuing a relationship if it happened, but there have been a few moments of weakness or difficulty where I know I probably would have slipped up if the opportunity had arisen. Fidelity ain't easy, or else everyone would do it.

NT