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08-24-2006, 05:15 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
Doesn't sound good.
You need to go into more detail on the cell situation though. Do you share a cell? Why? Why do her girlfriend call her on it? If she's cheating, why would she give some guy your number? 
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#2
08-24-2006, 06:06 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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Doesn't sound good. You need to go into more detail on the cell situation though. Do you share a cell? Why? Why do her girlfriend call her on it? If she's cheating, why would she give some guy your number? [/ QUOTE ] I got the cell phone as part of my parents/sisters plan many moons ago before I met her. Now we both used it all the time. We don't have long distance on the land-line because we use the Cell Phone for that. But in reality, It's my cell phone. The bill actually goes to my parents house and I give them money for my part. We never got off their plan because it was cheaper or some [censored]. But it's in my name as part of the plan, and I got it in my pocket right now.
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08-24-2006, 06:18 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] Doesn't sound good. You need to go into more detail on the cell situation though. Do you share a cell? Why? Why do her girlfriend call her on it? If she's cheating, why would she give some guy your number? [/ QUOTE ] I got the cell phone as part of my parents/sisters plan many moons ago before I met her. Now we both used it all the time. We don't have long distance on the land-line because we use the Cell Phone for that. But in reality, It's my cell phone. The bill actually goes to my parents house and I give them money for my part. We never got off their plan because it was cheaper or some [censored]. But it's in my name as part of the plan, and I got it in my pocket right now. [/ QUOTE ] Is there any chance he calls back before she can explain to him what happened? Can you answer your phone at work?
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#4
08-24-2006, 06:33 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
I thought OOT was OK with cheating, or rather [censored] someone on the side which shouldn't be called "cheating"?
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/showfl...e=2#Post7017057 OP: Come on, give us more of the background. Your reaction "Who the [censored]!!!!!!!! was that" indicates that there is some trust missing in the relationship. Her reaction of running into the other room and locking the door indicates that there is some fear on her part. There's more backstory as Slim stated. You need to go back and talk with the fincee. You should apologize for jumping to conclusions and yelling. She should tell you exactly who the [censored] it was and why she deleted the number. As previous poster said "she wronged, he wronged". Being man enough to have a discussion with her and apologize for screaming at her (before you knew who the [censored] it was) doesn't make one a pussy or mean that one has a vag. It means that one is mature. If she's cheating then the relationship is over, but you still have a kid together and you have to maintain some sort of decency to one another. As usual in these instances, the kid is totally [censored]! ~FishNChips
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#5
08-24-2006, 05:19 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
this looks and sounds (literally) very bad. i think you need to ask your fiance what was up. don't approach her and accuse her of something sketchy, but try to find out what happened. clearly, you want to trust her and you want her to feel as if you trust her. but what just happened sounds horrible and it demands further investigation. he definetly knew her, and she certainly wanted to pretend that she didn't know him--playing it off as a wrong number. you have to ask yourself why she would want you to think this was a wrong number. hopefully, you'll be subtle yet effective.
if your wife is super-sneaky, then this is some kind of test of your trust of her. but i think the chance of this is like 0%
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#6
08-24-2006, 05:26 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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We have a 3 year old daughter. [/ QUOTE ]
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#7
08-24-2006, 05:27 PM
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Hey 2+2ers, WWYD in this spot
To the OP again, sorry that this mess is occurring.
OOT, if you found out that your wife/fiancee was cheating on you and you decided some revenge and retaliation was in order, then who feels your wrath? Her or the dude? (or both)
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#8
08-24-2006, 05:28 PM
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Re: Hey 2+2ers, WWYD in this spot
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To the OP again, sorry that this mess is occurring. OOT, if you found out that your wife/fiance was cheating on you and you decided some revenge and retaliation was in order, then who feels your wrath? Her or the dude? (or both) [/ QUOTE ] Her. The dude is just some random [censored]. They're everywhere. She's the one who betrayed me.
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#9
08-24-2006, 05:35 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
Shouting at her probably isn't the greatest way to get to the bottom of it but it should be pretty clear that you got hosed. So sorry about that.
How does custody of the kid work out in these situations where you're not married but you're both the parents of the kid? Figuring out the best way to a) not [censored] your daughter over and b) not have her taken away would be the main thing on my mind right now. I would consider talking to somebody with legal expertise on this front.
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#10
08-24-2006, 05:42 PM
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