How Long Before You Say " I LuV U"?

[Sponger.]

Well that is a lot easier to agree with than just "when you're sure its true"

[mak15]

i love you is over rated.

[TIEdup14]

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There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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So far this is the best advice

[TheCroShow]

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There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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So far this is the best advice

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had the "i love you" blow up in my face once, of course at the time i thought "eff it, i'll just give it a go and see what happens." DOH

[dogdrool]

SIX WEEKS!?

Man, sometimes I wonder if it's only trolls that post in this forum.

You're going to tell a girl that you love her after SIX WEEKS. Just cut your balls off now. Either that or just come to terms with "i love you" being totally meaningless.

[inferno]

I never told someone I loved her, not even my mom

[Hornacek]

I've been dating a girl for almost 2 years now, still haven't said so.

[Roybert]

The important thing is that you get OOT's approval, whatever you do.

[XXXNoahXXX]

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I've been dating a girl for almost 2 years now, still haven't said so.

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you are definitely an outlier.


do you have a good relationship? fo you live together? is this over the internet? will you say it or just say it as part of a proposal?

[Hornacek]

We have a great relationship. We started dating in college, now I see her maybe 5 times a week. Don't live together, I think I'll say it eventually, but I've never said it before (never to previous GFs either) so maybe its just reluctance on my behalf.