How Long Before You Say " I LuV U"?

mother_brain · #1 07-09-2006, 12:51 AM

I'm pushing six weeks and feel this is probably the under. Let em rip and reasons are fine too. Like maybe you were older or had kids or grew up together. Just average relationship time these days.

Alobar · #2 07-09-2006, 12:55 AM

never before her

Darth Poker · #3 07-09-2006, 01:04 AM

as long at it takes so that I'm positive that I'm not mistaking passionate infatuation for real love. in the two instances in my life where I actually did love the girl, it was easily a year or more before I'd feel comfortable saying it and meaning it. and I certainly wouldnt say it if I didnt mean it...that's just the way I am.

usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

private joker · #4 07-09-2006, 01:06 AM

There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

Miamipuck · #5 07-09-2006, 01:12 AM

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never before her

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Sephus · #6 07-09-2006, 01:13 AM

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I'm not mistaking passionate infatuation for real love

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i didn't know there was a difference.

mother_brain · #7 07-09-2006, 01:15 AM

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never before her

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yeah this seems good

Fedfan691 · #8 07-09-2006, 01:16 AM

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usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

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I find it hard to believe any girl could be "passionately infatuated" with a guy who uses the username Darth Poker.

Sponger. · #9 07-09-2006, 01:23 AM

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I'm pushing six weeks and feel this is probably the under. Let em rip and reasons are fine too. Like maybe you were older or had kids or grew up together. Just average relationship time these days.

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The fact that you are laying out a timeline for telling people you love them means you either don't love them or you've loved so many people in your life it almost makes it meaningless.

SackUp · #10 07-09-2006, 01:24 AM

after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.

Before then she doesn't love you, so no reason to love her.