More Dating Advice - What's My Play - Page 4

Miggo · #31 01-09-2006, 04:47 PM

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How to instigate a jealous rage from numbuts.

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Can't you just post her myspace link on here, and everyone here will leave a message about how good of a time they all had with her. I'm not real familiar with myspace, but I think that would get numbnuts all riled up.

TomCollins · #32 01-09-2006, 04:48 PM

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It seems there were a few very decent responses and basically covered all sides of the situation. What type of response here would of satisfied you?

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miajag81 and MrWookie have examples of good responses.

Alobar · #33 01-09-2006, 04:48 PM

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Stick to the question at hand.

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whats the actual question? how to get this girl? Honestly I dont think you have a chance, shes stringing you and tool boy along, and thats the way it will stay until she finds someone shes more interested in, and then she stops returning your calls

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How to instigate a jealous rage from numbuts.

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why even bother? your success in the situation doesnt really hang on what happens to him.

why hate on him just cuz hes after the same tail you are, and you feel insulted cuz you think hes a tool yet shes still dating him. Win her over on your own merits, if the guy is as tooly as you say he is, he will take care of his own destruction

TomCollins · #34 01-09-2006, 04:49 PM

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How to instigate a jealous rage from numbuts.

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Can't you just post her myspace link on here, and everyone here will leave a message about how good of a time they all had with her. I'm not real familiar with myspace, but I think that would get numbnuts all riled up.

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Then it would be quite obvious to her I was up to it, which is something I want to avoid.

Resolution: I posted a comment in her myspace with a picture and quote from the DVD we watched last night.

elus2 · #35 01-09-2006, 04:51 PM

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if you're ok with having a non-exclusive relationship with this girl then why does the fact that she's dating a chump matter? enjoy her company when you both feel like meeting up but otherwise go do your own thing.

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Good point. I'm not that concerned. I do see it as potentially detrimental down the road.

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yep. but that is then. i wouldn't bother thinking about more than a week into the future with a girl i am casually seeing. or is she the type you'd one day take home to mom?

RunDownHouse · #36 01-09-2006, 04:51 PM

Alobar,

I'm pretty sure Blarg nailed it when he suggested misplaced aggression. Its kind of funny to see someone so lacking in self-awareness lash out at a multitude of people who can tell at a glance what's going on.

Keep On Keepin' On,
RunDownHouse

goofyballer · #37 01-09-2006, 11:07 PM

Is this one of the girls you wrote about in the Myspace thread?

If not, what happened to the cutter? Sounded like you guys were kinda into each other.

Mr. Zero · #38 01-10-2006, 12:23 AM

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However, I don't think it would be a terrible idea to somehow make sure he finds out not only is she allowed to date other people, she is. But I can't make it obvious that she knows that's what I'm up to.

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I don't get it - are you ok with her seeing this guy (or others) or not? I'm guessing that, at least some time in the future, her seeing another guy won't be ok. And that might be sooner than you're willing to admit.

I guess I sit tight for a week or so. See how things develop. If she complains about the guy but keeps him around, that's a huge red flag. If she keeps him around but actually likes the guy, time to look in the mirror. Frankly, a girl who likes a total douchebag loses points with me - I'd probably walk. But if you like her, maybe force the situation.

How long has she been seeing Army dude?

TomCollins · #39 01-10-2006, 12:12 PM

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Is this one of the girls you wrote about in the Myspace thread?

If not, what happened to the cutter? Sounded like you guys were kinda into each other.

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It's the cutter. She's a cool chick, just see her as the "too nice" type, giving a lot of guys chances she shouldn't because she's afraid they'll leave when she goes crazy.

TomCollins · #40 01-10-2006, 12:16 PM

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However, I don't think it would be a terrible idea to somehow make sure he finds out not only is she allowed to date other people, she is. But I can't make it obvious that she knows that's what I'm up to.

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I don't get it - are you ok with her seeing this guy (or others) or not? I'm guessing that, at least some time in the future, her seeing another guy won't be ok. And that might be sooner than you're willing to admit.

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Totally cool now. A month from now, not so much I'd say. It used to bother me a little, only because I hate competition from other guys. Things would be a lot easier if he wasn't in the picture (or maybe not).
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I guess I sit tight for a week or so. See how things develop. If she complains about the guy but keeps him around, that's a huge red flag. If she keeps him around but actually likes the guy, time to look in the mirror. Frankly, a girl who likes a total douchebag loses points with me - I'd probably walk. But if you like her, maybe force the situation.

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I will give it more than a week.
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How long has she been seeing Army dude?

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Met him for the first time 2 days before Christmas. He professed his love for her 3 days later in his myspace blog.

Again, I'm cool letting things play out. I just wondered if there was an interesting way to speed up the jealous rampage he goes on. And she is really into him, there is really no reason I'd ever expect this girl to be a good match for me. He may be a big tool, but he probably is really nice to her, so that's what he has going for him, so I can understand her hanging out with him, even if she is not into him as much.