fight with gf, judgement on my actions?

[Bluffoon]

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No but I did get banned for asking information about filesharing in P&G.

I'm failing to see what the big difference between her saying something to me when she is beside me and her saying it to me over a computer. Would it be different over the telephone? Perhaps many of you do not have experience with having or keeping a girlfriend for a year plus but it is important to talk to them on a regular basis and they are not always in the same city as you.

For all those with nothing but negativity, I wish you all to go screw a goat. For anyone who has anything productive to say, and preferably some actual experience with women outside of the relationship between you and your porn, I would love hear it.

Thank you.

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Its easy to see now how the argument degenerated to the point in the OP.

[Badger]

You explained the situation very poorly.
You left out that it happened online.
Do you see why you're not getting good advice?
Sounds like this may be a long distance relationship. Is it? This would be pertinent information.

This was, as you admit, a stupid fight. It started online. If you care about maintaining this relationship the two of you need to learn how to handle spats like this. Sounds as if one, or both, of you likes being dramatic. You need to learn how to deal with little things like this in a relationship without OOT's help.

[GambleGamble]

OP: My old girlfriend from Oklahoma was gonna fly out for the dance but she couldn't cause she's doing some modeling right now.
OOT: Is she hot?
OP: See for yourself.
[hands him Deb's glamor shot sample]
OOT: Wow.
OP: Yeah, I took her to the mall to get some glamor shots for her birthday one year.
OOT: I like her bangs.
OP: Me too.

OR


OOT: What about your girlfriend?
OP: Well, things are getting pretty serious right now. I mean, we chat online for, like, two hours every day so I guess you could say things are gettin' pretty serious.

[peterchi]

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For all those with nothing but negativity, I wish you all to go screw a goat. For anyone who has anything productive to say, and preferably some actual experience with women outside of the relationship between you and your porn, I would love hear it.

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You want something productive? ok.

Stop taking life so seriously. chill out. and certainly don't expect good OOT advice on this one. On a scale of relationship incidents from 1-10, this is like a 3. Not saying it's cool that she says this to you, or that I ever got spoken to like this regularly, but seriously chill out and then it won't even happen anyways.

I'm hoping you're young, like under 21 or so. I was dumb with relationships when I was around that age, getting pissed off at every little thing (not that I'm THAT much older now, but I've certainly chilled out, having been through my 3rd serious relationship). If you're young it's okay, just look at this as a learning experience, how to cope with this type of [censored] without even blinking. Otherwise you'll never make it through any relationship happily.

And I wasn't joking in my last post when I said, isn't this where you burst out laughing and start making out.

I'll now go back to screwing my goats.

[ElaineMonster]

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I figure a line has been crossed and I need to do something here. What do I do next OOT?

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You say, "I love you, honey. It doesn't matter who started this or who's more to blame. Let's try to resolve this together."
or you make a joke about it and then remind her you love her.
Defuse the tension and repair the damage.

[andre006]

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Perhaps many of you do not have experience with having or keeping a girlfriend for a year plus

I wish you all to go screw a goat.

For anyone who has anything productive to say, and preferably some actual experience with women outside of the relationship between you and your porn, I would love hear it.

Thank you.

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YW

[andre006]

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I figure a line has been crossed and I need to do something here. What do I do next OOT?


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ALL IN!

[2/325Falcon]

Andrew Karpinski,



Are you still training to be a cage fighter?

[andre006]

what about the guy?

[keikiwai]

Andrew,

I would concentrate on academics. Fourth grade is hard enough without girl drama.

helpfully,
keikiwai.