Kinda weird situation...

[ggbman]

Actually anyone who is one of my friends would tell you this couldn't be further from the truth. I am very loyal friend, and am still very close with many friends home home, many of whom have been my best friends for a decade.

I don't encourage her doing that sort of stuff, she is natrually flirtacious. It's not like i'm the only one she seems to be flirty with, lately it just seems like it might be a litt more directed towards me. I think you are reading too much into the fact that a chick gets drunk and sits on my lap or somthing...

[El Diablo]

gg,

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I don't encourage her doing that sort of stuff, she is natrually flirtacious.

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If you were a better friend, you'd discourage her.

[onthebutton]

Hmmm....this sounds like a particularly dangerous specimen. I'd watch your step.

[ggbman]

No, my buddy is going. She is allowed to bring two dates and wants to execise that option. My initial rsponse was "No, that would be cock-blockish, he wouldnt get laid".

Thats when she said some of the stuff i metnioned in the OP, and said that they wer sharing a room with 2 other people who are going (who are also 2 of my very good friends). That changed the situation a bit since they wouldn't be having privacy anyway, and we are all friends. The other 2 people are not a couple FWIW.

[Aces McGee]

ggbman,

You seem like a very good guy from most of your posts on here. But it goes beyond her sitting on your lap or slapping you on the ass.

If you had a girlfriend and found out she was talking trash to your boys about you, you'd be rightfully pissed: at both her for doing it, and them for not telling you what she was saying or at least allowing her to keep doing it.

Unless you really are interested in your buddy's staying power and that sort of thing, I'd suggest telling her you aren't particularly comfortable talking about her relationship with someone who you consider a good friend.

-McGee

[El Diablo]

gg,

In all seriousness, I would not consider anyone who acted the way you describe in the first post a friend, I would consider them a POS.

[Hack]

El D,

Bros before hos is all that needs to be said here.

[El Diablo]

gg,

What's next? You're going to give her a "friendly" massage after you guys have a few drinks?

[ggbman]

El D.,

Just trust me when i say you are reading into this too much. Wheneve this happens, i am [censored] up. I never let her do something like that when i am sober, and last time it happened when i was trashed i gave her a "get up" pat. I didn't feel the need to mention it because i didn't think my loyalty as a friend would be called into question.

Just as a frame of a reference, on the party cruise, i was sharing a cabin with my best friend and his gf.She changed shirts in the room, and i changed pants while she was in the room numeous times, and no one blinks. This is because anyone who is my friend knows that i am loyal and wouldn't do anything to betray their friendship.

[El Diablo]

gg,

"Wheneve this happens, i am [censored] up."

Of course. Don't forget to take her bra off when you're giving her that friendly back massage, you know, just for convenience.