Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys? - Page 14

kurosh · #**131** 07-25-2005, 03:06 PM

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She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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By explaining to her that anything she wantonly gives to other people is something that's not special to give to you. If she would kiss anyone, then it's no longer anything special for her to kiss you. Same principle.

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I've actually had this exact conversation with her about sex. Her argument is that it is still special with me because it's different with me than it would be if she was having sex with someone else.

EDIT: To clarify, this does not mean she fucks guys while we are dating. What she means is, if before we were dating, she had [censored] someone, it would not make our sex any less special because it is different.

klagett · #**132** 07-25-2005, 03:10 PM

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She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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By explaining to her that anything she wantonly gives to other people is something that's not special to give to you. If she would kiss anyone, then it's no longer anything special for her to kiss you. Same principle.

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I've actually had this exact conversation with her about sex. Her argument is that it is still special with me because it's different with me than it would be if she was having sex with someone else.

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Wow dude, say bye.

skoal2k4 · #**133** 07-25-2005, 03:10 PM

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A real man lets her go because he is confident she is coming back.

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wrong... a real man lets her go because he doesn't give a [censored] if she's coming back.

skoal2k4 · #**134** 07-25-2005, 03:13 PM

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I'm willing to bet you're a virgin.

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the way this post is going, I'm willing to bet you are

[censored] · #**135** 07-25-2005, 03:14 PM

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She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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By explaining to her that anything she wantonly gives to other people is something that's not special to give to you. If she would kiss anyone, then it's no longer anything special for her to kiss you. Same principle.

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I've actually had this exact conversation with her about sex. Her argument is that it is still special with me because it's different with me than it would be if she was having sex with someone else.

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[img]/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] uhh dude?

kurosh · #**136** 07-25-2005, 03:16 PM

I don't mean that she wantonly goes and has sex with lots of guys. The point is if she has slept with someone else before me or does after we break up, it does not make our sex any less special.

skoal2k4 · #**137** 07-25-2005, 03:17 PM

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She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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By explaining to her that anything she wantonly gives to other people is something that's not special to give to you. If she would kiss anyone, then it's no longer anything special for her to kiss you. Same principle.

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I've actually had this exact conversation with her about sex. Her argument is that it is still special with me because it's different with me than it would be if she was having sex with someone else.

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and you say you don't have any trust issues with her? Take a step back and evaluate

bernie · #**138** 07-25-2005, 03:17 PM

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She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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By explaining to her that anything she wantonly gives to other people is something that's not special to give to you. If she would kiss anyone, then it's no longer anything special for her to kiss you. Same principle.

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I've actually had this exact conversation with her about sex. Her argument is that it is still special with me because it's different with me than it would be if she was having sex with someone else.

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This just gets better...

Well, as some others have stated, at least she's coming home to you, right? So what does it matter? I mean, you know and trust her that she isn't going to dump you or fall for another guy just because she sleeps with them also? After all, you're special.

This chick sounds like she isn't ready for a monogamous relationship. If some chick brought that up to me and was serious about it in as far as she was saying she wants to have an open relationship, her ass would be on the curb.

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kurosh · #**139** 07-25-2005, 03:20 PM

SHE DOES NOT SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS. Jesus, I hate OOT. It's a HYPOTHETICAL of situations in the past or future.

bernie · #**140** 07-25-2005, 03:20 PM

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I don't mean that she wantonly goes and has sex with lots of guys. The point is if she has slept with someone else before me or does after we break up, it does not make our sex any less special.

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I don't get that from your statement at all. It's implying that even if she sleeps with someone else 'while' dating you, yours is still special. You may want to read what you wrote again. There isn't any indication of before or after relationship status.

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