Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys? - Page 8

ChipWrecked · #71 07-24-2005, 01:10 PM

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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Naked or not, the answer here is not only hell no, but hit the highway and have a nice life, biatch.

tdarko · #72 07-24-2005, 01:15 PM

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She has a very nice body and DD breasts. No pics. I know she's checked these forums once before and I have a semi-crazy other girl I had a fling with who DOES read my posts. She's posted here before

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[censored] · #73 07-24-2005, 01:16 PM

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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Kurosh-- This really does not sound right. Dude ask yourself why are they planning on all getting naked together? How can this not be something more than innocent?

THESE ARE GUYS, THIS ISN'T ABOUT SWIMMING!

I think this bothers you because you know something isn't right

Is this the same old ex G/F who was causing you all the grief some months ago?

ChipWrecked · #74 07-24-2005, 01:28 PM

She is feeling you out. You have already given her the trump card by not standing your ground and forbidding it right away. She has lost all respect she might have had for you. The only way you gain the man's place in the relationship now is to break up with her. If you decide to take her back, you are in the driver's seat. If you let this go on, you have given her the pants. If that's OK with you, then proceed, by all means. At this point, your balls are in her purse. You'd better get them back, pronto, before they shrivel.

Coffee · #75 07-24-2005, 03:14 PM

Couple of questions:

1) Why are you not going with her?

2) I think the nudity is not the issue I'd be most concerned about...honestly. It's the ex-bf issue that is my problem with it, because we already know that he DOES have a thing for her, and it would be a horrible temptation.

I too have gone skinny-dipping...in fact...we formed an informal group of skinny-dippers at my university...but it was written in stone that it could not be about sex because of the very issues most people have with them. It was more of a drunken, communing-with-nature type idea. So, I have no problem with the nudity aspect...it's the X-BF aspect where it becomes a problem for me.

CPSUpoker · #76 07-24-2005, 04:29 PM

I dont even understand why this is a question?

Your GIRLFRIEND is PLANNING on getting NAKED with other GUYS. (including her EX). And they dont want you there.

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

krazyace5 · #77 07-24-2005, 04:42 PM

Many bad signs here

-still "friends" with ex, no way this should fly, any of her guy friends should also be friends of yours, otherwise bad news

-equal group of guys and gals planning to go skinny dipping, swimming with opposite sex equals playful wrestling.....naked......

-friends she hangs out with and you don't, in a good relationship you should have mutual friends except maybe 1 or 2 same sex stragglers from before you met.

-she is asking you for permission to get naked with other guys....hello...

also her asking ahead of time don't mean squat, women like to play sick little mind games, she will get a good laugh knowing she has your permission while she and he are "carousing".

Another thing her male friends need to respect your authority so to speak as the boyfriend, they are gonna think you are a real donk if you let her do this.

I totally agree with chipwrecked
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She is feeling you out. You have already given her the trump card by not standing your ground and forbidding it right away. She has lost all respect she might have had for you. The only way you gain the man's place in the relationship now is to break up with her. If you decide to take her back, you are in the driver's seat. If you let this go on, you have given her the pants. If that's OK with you, then proceed, by all means. At this point, your balls are in her purse. You'd better get them back, pronto, before they shrivel.

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put yourself in her shoes and ask these ?'s as if it was the other way around, the whole thing stinks

regardless, good luck to ya

CPSUpoker · #78 07-24-2005, 04:47 PM

If my girlfriend asked if she could do somethin like this, I'd slap her then say, "BITCH, GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN."

RacersEdge · #79 07-24-2005, 04:59 PM

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I just don't want other guys to see her wet and naked.

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This just makes me laugh. The naked part I get - but the wet part?

bernie · #80 07-24-2005, 05:11 PM

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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Man, open your eyes! You're so in denial right now.

[i]The fact that she is socializing with a group of friends who don't like you should raise flags - not to mention that she wants to go skinny dipping with them! Not to mention one of them is her ex-boyfried! Come on...

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Is the ex b/f single?

But wouldn't this group be saying nothing but good things about her b/f? [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] Trying to help make her relationship stronger should the subject of her b/f come up? Yeah, right. Leads to the question of why she'd want to hang with a 'group' like this. Not that this will happen, it might not, but still...(I've seen this happen with guys 'consoling' chicks about their current b/fs in attempts to put the b/f in bad light so they look better. Guys tend to be the ones to broach the subject. That's one reason guys listen to chicks crap about their b/fs. Sign of weakness attracts them so they might be able to be next at the plate)

Where is the mutual respect? In this thread I see many saying 'you should trust her', blah blah. Where's her part in it? Where's her role in not putting her boyfriend in that position? How much respect is she showing if she goes anyways regardless of how the OP feels about it? And for what? Skinnydipping with people (dudes) that don't care for her b/f. Especially if she knows he's not fond of it? She doesn't really sound like that great a girlfriend. If she's adamant about going, she sure isn't thinking of you. Trust and respect is not a one way street.

If I was one of the guys skinnydipping with this chick, I'd think it was a little odd that she was there w/o him. I would wonder just how tight you guys are. Some guys would like to test that. Especially single ex b/fs.

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