My Wife's New "Buddy"

[Felix_Nietzsche]

Seriously - this is not behaviour a married man or woman should be doing. At all.
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I agree. You got problems my friend.....


but I believe in nipping problems like this in the bud, before they evolve into bigger problems.
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Yep.......


But what your wife is doing is unacceptable. Certainly as unacceptable as if you were contacting a strange female online. While her motives may be strictly innocent (doubtful but possible) - his motives are certainly not.
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Yep.....if you were contacting other chicks, I doubt she would be so understanding.


Granted, your wife may not be getting what she needs from you emotionally - if that's the case, she needs to tell you so and you can discuss and solves things as a couple.
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I heard a joke that when men cheat, it is because they are pigs. When women cheat it is because they are 'emotional neglected'. Your wife KNOWS she is doing something wrong and her tactic of showing you was to sooth her feelings of guilt. This guy wants to [censored] your wife and she is digging the attention.... I would tell her you are not happy with this. If she has problems with the marriage, then she should SPEAK UP. Contacting other guys online is something that SINGLE WOMEN DO...not married women. You also need to look at yourself, have you been taking her for granted? Are you being a wimp towards her? Something in your behavior (or lack of behavior) is contributing to this.