Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance

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I love these people who think OP needs to go back and apologize.

Are you such a bitch in your own relationships?

If anyone isn't thinking about the daughter its the (ex)fiancee. That is where all responsibility lies.

I'm tired of these goddamn men(term used loosely) grovelling to their women even when all the blame for a problem is on her. You sound like 50's housewives. You are the women in your relationships.

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Even OP, the poster child for OOT, has admitted that perhaps kicking [censored], screaming and hollering and storming out was bad form. If I scared the hell out of a 3 year old, I'd like to think I'd be man enough to apologize for it. If I couldn't swallow my pride and do it, I can assure you that I wouldn't think of myself as some sort of superhero to the male gender.

Does saying "I'm sorry I flipped out - I promise it won't happen again. Now, let's talk about where we go from here" really make someone a 50s housewife in your opinion?

[FishNChips]

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I love these people who think OP needs to go back and apologize.

Are you such a bitch in your own relationships?

If anyone isn't thinking about the daughter its the (ex)fiancee. That is where all responsibility lies.

I'm tired of these goddamn men(term used loosely) grovelling to their women even when all the blame for a problem is on her. You sound like 50's housewives. You are the women in your relationships.

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Even OP, the poster child for OOT, has admitted that perhaps kicking [censored], screaming and hollering and storming out was bad form. If I scared the hell out of a 3 year old, I'd like to think I'd be man enough to apologize for it. If I couldn't swallow my pride and do it, I can assure you that I wouldn't think of myself as some sort of superhero to the male gender.

Does saying "I'm sorry I flipped out - I promise it won't happen again. Now, let's talk about where we go from here" really make someone a 50s housewife in your opinion?

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QFT

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I love these people who think OP needs to go back and apologize.

Are you such a bitch in your own relationships?

If anyone isn't thinking about the daughter its the (ex)fiancee. That is where all responsibility lies.

I'm tired of these goddamn men(term used loosely) grovelling to their women even when all the blame for a problem is on her. You sound like 50's housewives. You are the women in your relationships.

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Even OP, the poster child for OOT, has admitted that perhaps kicking [censored], screaming and hollering and storming out was bad form. If I scared the hell out of a 3 year old, I'd like to think I'd be man enough to apologize for it. If I couldn't swallow my pride and do it, I can assure you that I wouldn't think of myself as some sort of superhero to the male gender.

Does saying "I'm sorry I flipped out - I promise it won't happen again. Now, let's talk about where we go from here" really make someone a 50s housewife in your opinion?

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QFT

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So when are you two sackless wonders going to hook up?

[Quercus]

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So when are you two sackless wonders going to hook up?

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Some stranger muscles in and steals OPs woman and his response is to throw a tantrum, terrify a three year old and run away and hide in his parents camper while complaining that she hasn't called him.

But, I'm the one without a sack. Ok.

Dude needs to man up, go back there and see if this can be fixed. If it can't, it can't and he needs to figure out how to come up with the least awful scenario for his little girl.

What he does not need to do is mope around his parent's camper, plotting revenge via MySpace and bemoaning how awful the world is.

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So when are you two sackless wonders going to hook up?

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Some stranger muscles in and steals OPs woman and his response is to throw a tantrum, terrify a three year old and run away and hide in his parents camper while complaining that she hasn't called him.

But, I'm the one without a sack. Ok.

Dude needs to man up, go back there and see if this can be fixed. If it can't, it can't and he needs to figure out how to come up with the least awful scenario for his little girl.

What he does not need to do is mope around his parent's camper, plotting revenge via MySpace and bemoaning how awful the world is.

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How can you possibly think this is any type of option? This is over.

And if you look at this situation as presented and provide the assessment we see above, you are lacking sack.

[robber baron]

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So when are you two sackless wonders going to hook up?

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Some stranger muscles in and steals OPs woman and his response is to throw a tantrum, terrify a three year old and run away and hide in his parents camper while complaining that she hasn't called him.

But, I'm the one without a sack. Ok.

Dude needs to man up, go back there and see if this can be fixed. If it can't, it can't and he needs to figure out how to come up with the least awful scenario for his little girl.

What he does not need to do is mope around his parent's camper, plotting revenge via MySpace and bemoaning how awful the world is.

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At this point OP should seriously considerr getting a paternity test. Quercus, did your daddy leave you when you were a kid. You seem very focused on the child. Don't get me wrong I think the child is innocent in all of this and her interests are paramount, but seriously if I found out my wife/gf was cheating on me my reaction would be very similar to OP's.

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So when are you two sackless wonders going to hook up?

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Some stranger muscles in and steals OPs woman and his response is to throw a tantrum, terrify a three year old and run away and hide in his parents camper while complaining that she hasn't called him.

But, I'm the one without a sack. Ok.

Dude needs to man up, go back there and see if this can be fixed. If it can't, it can't and he needs to figure out how to come up with the least awful scenario for his little girl.

What he does not need to do is mope around his parent's camper, plotting revenge via MySpace and bemoaning how awful the world is.

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At this point OP should seriously considerr getting a paternity test. Quercus, did you're daddy leave you when you were a kid. You seem very focused on the child. Don't get me wrong I think the child is innocent in all of this and her interests are paramount, but seriously if I found out my wife/gf was cheating on me my reaction would be very similar to OP's.

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if i found out my fiancee was cheating on me i would set fire to the child to appease the gods.

[RunDownHouse]

So you're really all about burning bridges, huh?

[tuq]

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Even OP, the poster child for OOT

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Our applications to be an STT poster like you were rejected because our testosterone levels were too high.

[TPupAZ]

Sekrah should craigslist himself a ho to his camper.
That'll teach the beyotch.