Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance

[FishNChips]

I thought OOT was OK with cheating, or rather [censored] someone on the side which shouldn't be called "cheating"?
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/showfl...e=2#Post7017057

OP:
Come on, give us more of the background. Your reaction "Who the [censored]!!!!!!!! was that" indicates that there is some trust missing in the relationship. Her reaction of running into the other room and locking the door indicates that there is some fear on her part. There's more backstory as Slim stated.

You need to go back and talk with the fincee. You should apologize for jumping to conclusions and yelling. She should tell you exactly who the [censored] it was and why she deleted the number.

As previous poster said "she wronged, he wronged".

Being man enough to have a discussion with her and apologize for screaming at her (before you knew who the [censored] it was) doesn't make one a pussy or mean that one has a vag. It means that one is mature.

If she's cheating then the relationship is over, but you still have a kid together and you have to maintain some sort of decency to one another.

As usual in these instances, the kid is totally [censored]!

~FishNChips