She left me

[CharlieDontSurf]

I'd post and say get a lawyer, get a therapist, don't dilude yourself into believing your going to make her fall back in love with you, etc etc.

But in the end it is not worth while...OP is in denial as most any guy would be in a similar situation...so its doubtfull he will take any of the advice in here and actually use it if it goes against his own hopes/desires for the marriage.