She left me

[Georgia Avenue]

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I suggest hiring a PI to follow her around for a bit. If she's having an affair, it won't take long for it to be discovered.

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OOT suggested this 6 weeks ago. He didn't listen then, he's probably not going to now either.

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Hopefully the recent events have pulled him out of the denial he was suffering 6 weeks ago.

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I don't really want to argue about it dude, and I appreciate that you're trying to help. But actually this turn of events makes me more willing to believe that she is not cheating on me. The fact that there was some huge lurking darkness in her heart explains why she was pushing this issue and having inappropriate relationships. It seems most likely to me that she just wanted to create some kind of drama so she could bring this up. I don't think she did this consciously. Also, I think she would just tell me at this point if she did cheat on me.

Nevertheless you may be right. I don't think it's very productive to try and find out exactly what happened. If she cheated on me, we have no chance, and sooner or later I'll find out. I'd rather just try to deal with her as someone I want to stay with forever...If that changes, so be it.

LORD what a dramaqueen...it's like freaking Oedipus Rex around here...! The usual placebos are having no effect...porn, scrippas, gamboling, booze...all useless...I guess I'll go play basketball for a few hours...

Anyway, thanks for your comments y'all. Thanks for the kind PMs too. One upside: If she calls it quits before July 27st I can sell the car and hitchhike to the ME...

Degenerately
--GA