She left me

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1. She is almost certianly cheating on you.


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Yeah, 'cause clearly you have enough information to assume this.

To me "I don't believe in divorce" is basically "I am not a pragmatist" which bothers me.

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I've known a few women who behaved much like the OP's wife, who said similar things that the OP's wife has said, and all of them were having affairs. The OP's original thread makes it clear that there is someone else. The OP suspected it at the time, but couldn't admit it to himself. That's not to say the OP's wife is *definitely* having an affair, but I'd definitely be willing to bet that she is.

Her talk of "never having loved/been attracted to" the OP smacks of a woman who is justifying her behaviour to herself. Since she sees the marriage as being unfixable, she sees no reason to deny herself some other guy who has appeared in her life and seems oh so wonderful.