Am I a chip spewing idiot?

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5 handed. folded to small blind who raises. I have q [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]5 [img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img]
I call, I call a lot here.
so flop comes down 5 [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] 10 [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] 8 [img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img]
he bets i call.
turn is j [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
giving me pair gutshot and flush draw
He bets I raise??
oh yeah.. and player isnt particulary solid