My Wife's New "Buddy"

[Jay.]

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This whole 'anti-spying' thing is annoying the hell out of me right now. 'I shouldn't sppy because i trust her' what? No you don't trust her, you are worried because she is speaking to a guy. Rightly so.

'Spying' although not the nicest way, is just a quick way of getting full information. You either read the emails realise she is doing nothing wrong and move on with your life or read the emails realise she is and move on with your life without her. Bingo, perfect.

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I don't know what I'd do in this situation. I'm a pretty big privacy advocate but the whole cheating spouse thing really sucks (if she is in fact cheating or thinking about it). I'd like to think I would not spy on her, but in this situation, I might be tempted.

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I think as a husband he has the right to see the emails she has sent to another guy that he is too embarassed to let him read.