Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance

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I love these people who think OP needs to go back and apologize.

Are you such a bitch in your own relationships?

If anyone isn't thinking about the daughter its the (ex)fiancee. That is where all responsibility lies.

I'm tired of these goddamn men(term used loosely) grovelling to their women even when all the blame for a problem is on her. You sound like 50's housewives. You are the women in your relationships.

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Even OP, the poster child for OOT, has admitted that perhaps kicking [censored], screaming and hollering and storming out was bad form. If I scared the hell out of a 3 year old, I'd like to think I'd be man enough to apologize for it. If I couldn't swallow my pride and do it, I can assure you that I wouldn't think of myself as some sort of superhero to the male gender.

Does saying "I'm sorry I flipped out - I promise it won't happen again. Now, let's talk about where we go from here" really make someone a 50s housewife in your opinion?