She left me

[Fast Food Knight]

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She may well be saying these things but is really covering up for an affair or the desire to have one. People don't just end a marriage without some other prospect on the horizon, or already in hand.

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Right on. Easy to be in denial about this. Also, regarding

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I don't believe in divorce

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I'm not going to try to debate about or change your beliefs but do consider this: life is SHORT, and so is your youth. How do you think you'll feel when you're 80 and looking back knowing that you did not do everything you could to make yourself and your life as happy as possible? That would be such a complete waste.

Also, such a prevalent feeling in these type of situations is that it's not possible to ever find someone as good for you as this person. This is crap, you owe it to yourself to find someone who is crazy about you. Why waste even a day with someone who isn't?