She left me

[tuq]

GA,

From a 30,000 foot perspective, it sure seems that she is/was cheating on you, at least enough for her to try to justify it in your sessions. And to me it appears that you could be in denial about this.

Flame me if you must, that's just my take from this and the other thread. Either way, good luck, and I agree in the long run you'll be happier with a divorce. I just hope you don't have any kids.