Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance

[Keepitsimple]

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amead,

Agreed. Instead of an apology, how about OP drives by his old place every night at 10:20 and honks his horn a bunch of times?

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LOOL, vnh

[tuq]

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Did anything happen in this thread after it died down yesterday after 200+ replies. Tell me if I should read or not...

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It turned out that Lebron James was the other man, and he and Larry Hughes ran a train on OP's fiancee once.

[Gildwulf]

ban OP if he doesn't update

[tdarko]

FishnChips,

I believe him snapping at her could possibly be him reading her body language and how odd/weird and unordinary the situation was flowing, this wasn't a typical "oh hey Jack! Yeah let's grab dinner tommorrow night" (hangs up phone then says to OP) "oh that was my friend Jack from work we are going to grab a bite to eat after we get off tommorrow." This was way different. And her running into the other room may and possibly has nothing to do with being scared but more to do with hiding and being secretive. Remember while she was in the room is when she erased his numbers from the phone. So don't think she was scared of him or anything, you should think that she is a sneaky, vindictive, lying, cheating, bitch is actually what you should think and that the OP didn't actually go overboard anywhere in the thread. Just my opinion though.

~td

[onthebutton]

tdarko,

Exactly. Everyone knows that "look". The "Ohs noes I'm caught what do I do oh [censored] play it off play it off!" look. And when you see this look when a dude calls your fiancee that late at night?

[AngusThermopyle]

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[72off]

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Exactly. Everyone knows that "look". The "Ohs noes I'm caught what do I do oh [censored] play it off play it off!" look. And when you see this look when a dude calls your fiancee that late at night?

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Oh well, guess OP is better off then. If this girl is dumb enough to:

A - Cheat on OP
B - Give out OP's cell number to reach her (yeah maybe she said only call at certain days/times or he was supposed to be working that night or whatever, but it's still pretty dumb)
C - Freeze like a deer in the headlights when semi-busted (she almost certainly could have played it off)

Move on then.

This thread seems pretty played out, barring a re-appearance from the OP with new information.

[Ser William]

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Maybe she doesn't run into the room if he doesn't yell. But it doesn't matter, again, she is obliged to come clean, doing anything other than coming clean immediately will only strain their relationship, and cause problems for their daughter.

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So if their relationship was perfectly happy and pristine up to this point and he just flew off the handle yelling at her for the first time something wierd happened, that doesn't cause a strain on a relationship?

Nobody is suggesting that OP apologize to his fiance with the idea of being a big pussy and letting her get away with anything. Let's not forget there is a child involved here. The idea is to apologize for going off the handle with the intent of getting her to level with him and getting to the bottom of this with as little harm done to the child as possible.

I think we all know this relationship is doomed. Chances are from the way they BOTH acted, it has been doomed for quite some time. In fact it is probably best for all (OP, fiance, and child) that they end it. So let's just try to do so as civily as possible.

And OP's reactions might even be justified without knowing more of their history. If she has a history of seeing other men or flirting with other men or even cheating on him then his reactions make more sense. We only had some much information to go on, and OP hasn't come back to clear it up further.

[grando]

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Did anything happen in this thread after it died down yesterday after 200+ replies. Tell me if I should read or not...

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no

[oreopimp]

man, I was hoping to wake up and get an update but there is nothing. Forum blue balls suck.