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08-24-2006, 06:05 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] ...but he HAS to try. [/ QUOTE ] His first step should probably be to try to find out what is actually going on. [/ QUOTE ] While I'm sure this girl owes OP several apologies over whatever the story is. I think its important to the situation that the OP sees his own need to apologize to her for his actions here. [/ QUOTE ] Are you [censored] kidding me? 
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#144
08-24-2006, 06:06 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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OP, I think a relevant point here, though not one that would truly mitigate her cheating on you if that is indeed what happened, is your so-called engagement. I say so-called because you have been together 5 years and have a 3 year old child already, and thus likely have one of those weak engagements that are long-term open-ended as to the date. So in reality it's just a gf/bf shacking up thing with a child thrown in. So it's very relevant whether this issue has been a point of contention in your relationship, as has she wanted to go ahead and get married but you didn't want to yet. Again if that's the case it doesn't excuse cheating, but it might explain her rationale for same as wanting to find another relationship but keeping her current one until that is on sound footing so as not to have to be living alone as a single mom. [/ QUOTE ] It's impossible for me to express how much I disagree with this post.
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#145
08-24-2006, 06:06 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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Doesn't sound good. You need to go into more detail on the cell situation though. Do you share a cell? Why? Why do her girlfriend call her on it? If she's cheating, why would she give some guy your number? [/ QUOTE ] I got the cell phone as part of my parents/sisters plan many moons ago before I met her. Now we both used it all the time. We don't have long distance on the land-line because we use the Cell Phone for that. But in reality, It's my cell phone. The bill actually goes to my parents house and I give them money for my part. We never got off their plan because it was cheaper or some [censored]. But it's in my name as part of the plan, and I got it in my pocket right now.
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#146
08-24-2006, 06:06 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] She: Hello. He (with reception problems): Hello? She: Hello?? He (with reception problems): Hello??? She: Hello????...[ thinks..."Lousy connection" ] He (with reception problems): Hello???? Amanda this is.. as she closes cellphone. DuckWithMangoSalsaBoyfriend: Who the ****** was that? She: Here we go again. [/ QUOTE ] For his next trick, Mr. Funny Guy will explain why She deleted the number from the received calls list. [/ QUOTE ] For his next trick, OP might tell the full story instead of stringing this along.
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#147
08-24-2006, 06:07 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] excellent point. he might avoid child support! [/ QUOTE ] At this point Sekrah is most likely on the hook for child support regarless of whether or not the mommy is screwing around and regardless of the results of any DNA tests. In most states, once you are named as the daddy there is no going back. [/ QUOTE ] I'm pretty sure that's 100% wrong.
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#148
08-24-2006, 06:07 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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DuckWithMangoSalsaBoyfriend: Who the ****** was that? [/ QUOTE ] lol
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#149
08-24-2006, 06:08 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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For his next trick, OP might tell the full story instead of stringing this along. [/ QUOTE ] It's better this way like not posting hand results in a p*ker discussion. Otherwise you can't react as he reacted to it unfolding and will just make a results dependant analysis.
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#150
08-24-2006, 06:08 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] ...but he HAS to try. [/ QUOTE ] His first step should probably be to try to find out what is actually going on. [/ QUOTE ] While I'm sure this girl owes OP several apologies over whatever the story is. I think its important to the situation that the OP sees his own need to apologize to her for his actions here. [/ QUOTE ] he kicked a door and left the apartment (smart move, very!) once he basically confirmed his babby momma was cheating on him. WTF kind of apology does he owe? again, KICKED A DOOR. do you guys realize how much it hurts to have someone you care about betray you in the most intimate of ways? [/ QUOTE ] Yes I do. and while I was wronged in some big ways, I also WRONGED in the middle of it. Their [censored] behavior doesn't justify ours. Theirs is wrong. OURS is wrong. He may not have done anything HORRIBLE wrong but if any reconciliation here is to take place (and MUST take place for the kid's sake) OP has to apologize too. Once the agner subsides a little, this will hopefull be more clear. disagree if you want. I feel like I have a moral point, and am not going to get into an arguement over it.
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