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she's making it pretty obvious that we could be very close to taking our relationship to a physical/etc

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And rather than act on her advances, you've decided to ask OOT whether or not you should.

Okay. So now we've established you are a head case, I think you should steal her soiled underwear and use them for mastabatory fantasies, maybe some night she'll crawl into your bed -- leave your computer on so that you can quickly ask OOT for your next move.