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11-29-2007, 01:08 AM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
Imagine the millions of people in the world who would and do risk their lives just to get into the position you are now in. It's really not that bad. Imagine you and your family lived in 10x worse the conditions you now do and you just washed up on shore after spending weeks on a raft, and now all thats in the way is this one statistics class. Are you really gonna let this one class defeat you? Beg the prof to let you make up the test and study, you said you could in the past, the only way your work is gonna get done is if you go do it, just go do it RIGHT NOW and get it [censored] done. Look at me procrastinating right now and for the last several hours, now I have to do work so after I finish this sentence I'm going to GO DO IT, now you do the same thing
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11-29-2007, 01:45 AM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
If your income is as low as you say apply for Federal Grants and Loans when accepted into an out of state school. Also, taking out loans for college isn't the end of the world.
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#3
11-29-2007, 02:26 AM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
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It's really not that bad. [/ QUOTE ] Thank you. OP, you really need to just stop with this emotional woe-is-me attitude and just go out there and grind. Take all the stuff in your life that wastes time, and cut it out. Completely. Maybe you're depressed, maybe not, blah blah blah, at the end of the day, it's your choice, you're not just some helpless weakling incapable of doing anything.
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#5
11-29-2007, 02:00 PM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
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Look at how many times you've replied to this post.. if you used that time to write papers, they'd be done. [/ QUOTE ] QFT. Seriously, even if you end up flunking out and have to flip burgers for the rest of your life, you'll still be better off than people starving to death somewhere in a 3rd world country. You're wasting your time on here obv imo. Sign off and get to work.
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#6
11-29-2007, 03:43 PM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
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[ QUOTE ] Look at how many times you've replied to this post.. if you used that time to write papers, they'd be done. [/ QUOTE ] QFT. Seriously, even if you end up flunking out and have to flip burgers for the rest of your life, you'll still be better off than people starving to death somewhere in a 3rd world country. You're wasting your time on here obv imo. Sign off and get to work. [/ QUOTE ] So, he just has to find some starving kid's forum posts so he will stop feeling bad about himself. Then that kid just has to find some posts made by a chicken at the KFC plant, and so on. Then nobody will feel bad.
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#7
11-29-2007, 07:32 PM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
No, the point is that his life isn't that bad of a deal. When the title of the thread basically implores people to pity him, it makes the point a necessary one. If you feel that the post you quoted was wrong, I'd be very interested in hearing your logic in determining so.
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#8
11-29-2007, 08:09 PM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
I was making fun of the fact that OP and some of the responses seem to think the fact that somebody is worse off than you is somehow relevant to how good your life is. That is that you shouldn't feel bad if you think about the fact that others have it worse off. Worry about improving your own life. If you are irrational enough that somehow people you have never met suffering across the world can motivate you to improve your own life, then by all means use whatever motivating tools you can find.
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11-29-2007, 10:30 PM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Look at how many times you've replied to this post.. if you used that time to write papers, they'd be done. [/ QUOTE ] QFT. Seriously, even if you end up flunking out and have to flip burgers for the rest of your life, you'll still be better off than people starving to death somewhere in a 3rd world country. You're wasting your time on here obv imo. Sign off and get to work. [/ QUOTE ] So, he just has to find some starving kid's forum posts so he will stop feeling bad about himself. Then that kid just has to find some posts made by a chicken at the KFC plant, and so on. Then nobody will feel bad. [/ QUOTE ] That's not the point I'm trying to make. A starving kid in a 3rd world country doesn't even have internet access, ldo. And chickens can't post. All I'm saying is he actually has the ability to do something about his situation, the starving kid doesn't. Be a man and sign off and get to work. If he can't do it on his own, call up a therapist or doctor and get some meds so he can function.
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#10
11-30-2007, 02:20 AM
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Re: If you are feeling bad about yourself, read this
I don't see what is so wrong with being grateful for the opportunities you have been given. I feel very fortunate to be born in America with freedom and opportunity at my grasp. And yes, this appreciation greatly motivates me. Maybe I'm strange, but it would seem if i felt otherwise, I would be taking my life for granted. Also, there is nothing honorable about not having compassion for those less fortunate than you.
suggestions for OP: -get up and eat a good breakfast-some eggs, oatmeal, and some kind of fruit. There's something about eating healthy that makes you feel good about yourself. - wait about 15 minutes for the food to digest. Then, take a 15-20 minute walk. This exercise should get your blood pumping and help you feel better about yourself(I think exercise releases endorphins or something.) - While walking, make sure to look around and try to enjoy the scenery-trees, houses, any animals you can find. The point of this is to take the focus off of yourself and all your faults (everybody has them). After you've cleared your mind, you should be ready to do some homework. - Tear through some homework and study study study. I suggested you do this in the morning because you say you get tired when you go to study. Also, after eating well and taking a walk, you should have no problem staying awake. It seems as if you might have dug too deep of a hole in statistics and you might have to abandon ship. THAT IS OK. Everyone needs to make mistakes, that is how we learn. I suggest focusing on your other classes that you can salvage a decent grade with. Also, forget about failing statistics and not being able to transfer to a university. Forget about being 24 and behind the eight ball. Focus on the here and now-you and the classes you will salvage. If you focus on these negative things, you will not be able to perform to your full potential. I can tell from the way you write and your superman analogy LOL that you are no idiot. You are totally capable of passing all your classes with at least B's. Just believe in your ability to accomplish things. "Whether you believe you can or cannot, you are right." "You cannot change your past, but the way to changing your future is acting in the present."
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