Ugh proposal dilemma

[The Dude]

Option B is probably best, but really I think you're the only who can really know for sure. You know your plans, you know your girlfriend, you know the situation.

Just try and avoid the ex-roommate at the wedding. Hopefully your girlfriend and her aren't both in the wedding party?

Good luck, sir.

[Paul B.]

e) propose with an obvious gimmick ring. After she says yes, tell her the real ring is on the way.

[bugstud]

bump, we need details that aim logs simply cannot provide!

[Emperor]

option c.

Marriage is -EV. Coinflipping for spouses just doesn't make sense in my opinion.

I married the perfect girl once...

I also dated a girl who's husband thought she was the perfect girl right up until he found out. (same day I found out)

My new favorite word is misogyny.

In the words of my intelligent friend, "Women are batshit crazy, use them for what they are good for"

[Fast Food Knight]

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Because what women want is for men to be in control wrt the rest of the world and also carried away by romantic love.

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I like this.


Also, I sort of think it's a terrible idea to roll the proposal into the same weekend as someone else's wedding and in the same city. I think you should make some sort of weekend trip to somewhere else just for the sake of proposing. I think it cheapens it for you to piggy-back on your friend's occasion.

PS, FWIW I have given the concept of being proposed to and all the logistics lots of thought. Heh