A 'let's be friends' girl msgs me back... what's the play?

[Klompy]

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Yea, I had a feeling... so you would just ignore the message completely?

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Will you run into her again in the future?

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Nope, she lives about 20 miles away.

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Then I guess It's up to you, I'm usually not the mean kinda guy to girls so I'd prob send something back that wasn't flirty at all but end contact in the near future. I couldn't blame anybody who just didn't send anything back though.

edit: esad's idea is much much better.

[pokerbobo]

Let me be the voice of dissent here.

She may want you, who knows. The play here is to agree that you two are "great" as talkin buddies,but you felt no chemistry with her either.

then you suggest to BANG just to make sure there is no chemistry. No strings attached, but you think she is so cool, that you cant let her be just a friend unless you know for sure that you are not compatible.

Worst case... she says no, and you go seperate ways.

OK case, you bang, its meh, and you both are OK with it and continue to be friends.

Best case... you BANG like rabbits and she wants you for at least a fork buddy, maybe more.

[ncboiler]

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girls are hardwired to mindfuck. She doesn't want you. She just wants you to want her.

gl hf

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I don't like to quote without adding anything but I don't have anything to add. This is exactly what is happening.

[NT!]

oh guys, look, try not to circumvent the filter by combining [censored] words with others. i realize i just quoted a post that does it and i know it wasn't intentional, you kinda have to police yourselves here.

[ncboiler]

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girls are hardwired to mind [censored]. She doesn't want you. She just wants you to want her.

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I don't like to quote without adding anything but I don't have anything to add. This is exactly what is happening.

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Opps...sorry

[foxw00ds player]

ATTENTION [censored] and she is mad she is not getting any, if she is hawt she is probably not used to guys not chasing her, but she was mistaken, she is dealing with a p-l-a-y-e-r baby

[NASCARFAN925]

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ATTENTION [censored] and she is mad she is not getting any, if she is hawt she is probably not used to guys not chasing her, but she was mistaken, she is dealing with a p-l-a-y-e-r baby

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Haha, no she's not hot, but she's definitely cute. And the other thing is she's 30 and still lives at home.... but she's Korean, and I heard that type of thing is fairly typical in those families.

Another note I should add is before our 2nd date, I'd asked if she wanted to come over to my place and watch a DVD or play Wii or whatever, and she politely declined, saying that she wasn't very comfortable with going to a guy's place on a 2nd date. She's not a biblethumper though, but she struck me as the conservative type.

[maxtower]

I would need to see a photo to give my best answer.

If you don't think you can get anywhere on a 3rd date as far as the make outs are concerned, its probably not worth it.

It is alarming that at age 30 she can't go watch a video at your house. Its not like you asked to bang.

[NASCARFAN925]

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It is alarming that at age 30 she can't go watch a video at your house. Its not like you asked to bang.

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Pretty much exactly what I was thinking, which was why I wasn't too surprised by her wanting to be friends at the end of the 2nd date.

[IggyWH]

So what have you decided to do?