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Old 03-27-2007, 12:30 PM
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Don't actively go looking for a third. When you two are out at a bar or a restaurant, just casually say "how about her, you think she'd be up for it?"

Just thinking about having a 3some with her should be enough of a turn on. Actually going through with a 3some with someone you care about would be a bad idea.
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Old 03-27-2007, 12:35 PM
Mat Sklansky Mat Sklansky is offline
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The first requirement for this to be successful short-term, and without regrets after, is that the girl in question really wants the threesome. If she's just doing it to please him, it's not so good in the long run.

Once this can be verified, virtually no effort is required on the part of the male.
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Old 03-27-2007, 03:37 PM
Paul Thomson Paul Thomson is offline
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Default Re: 3-somes

after writing my reply. i went back and read others responses and i see one CHARACTERISTIC from all the older guys who have been there more than once....

The girl has to want it and she'll make it happen.
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Old 03-27-2007, 12:55 PM
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My ex-gf used to tell me she would be down for a threesome, but I never knew how to make it work. She never showed any initiative, and I had no idea what type of girl I should look for. My friend is going through the same thing now and asked me how to proceed, and I had no idea. So naturally I post here!

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ive had many 3somes. if any effort is required by you it will end up being a complete disaster. just as if you said "ok" in passing to a guy/guy/girl 3some and then your gf showed up w/ some dude. if you really wanted it you would have found the dude.
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Old 03-27-2007, 03:47 PM
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Am I the only one who wouldn't be interested in having a 3some with a girlfriend I really cared about? It's hard for me to explain why but the thought of it just doesn't appeal to me. But this is only if I am in a relationship with a girl I love absent that it changes everything.
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Old 03-27-2007, 04:00 PM
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I agree completely. I don't like to share or be shared.
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Old 03-27-2007, 05:33 PM
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STRASS FFS DON'T GO THE MMF ROUTE
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Old 03-27-2007, 05:38 PM
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Am I the only one who wouldn't be interested in having a 3some with a girlfriend I really cared about?

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nope.
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Old 03-27-2007, 05:51 PM
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its hard enough with girls you aren't in a relationship in. I can't even imagine the repercussions in a relationship. See this bb4L thread i started
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Old 03-27-2007, 06:16 PM
TeeJayOrTJ TeeJayOrTJ is offline
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I have same problem as OP's friend. The girl that wants to have a 3-some is one I used to date for a couple months. Now we just hook up when drunk. She claims to want to have one, but never shows any initiative. Plus we rarely go out together. She told me it's my job to find the girl, not an easy task.
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