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06-11-2007, 07:18 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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Don't tell her and start cheating more regularly so you can get some practice at not getting caught, [/ QUOTE ] haah awesome 
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06-11-2007, 08:31 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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[ QUOTE ] fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ]qft If you're going to marry this girl, it's going to be very very very hard not to get caught, so have backup plans, etc. I've only been faithful in about 20% of my relationships, and among all those times I've cheated, I've gotten caught a lot. It's surprisingly hard not to get caught because women are paranoid. So be prepared for that. The hardest is when you're lying to both girls because they're both actively trying to find each other. [/ QUOTE ] U aren't doing something right then. It is easy not to get caught. Plan ahead. Always plan ahead. But here is the golden rule. NEVER NEVR NEVER TELL HER. NO MATTER WHAT. U have done the deed now live with it. Teling her will only ruin the relationship. Why do that? u will carry the guilt, u did it, no reason to hurt her by telling her. U have done enough damage so keep it inside. As for still cheating, why not? Plan ahead, take them to completely different places never go to the same area with each girl. Never make plans on the same day. Always leave a out. If u live with one of them, get a 2nd job, so u have a excuse to be out alot. I didn't get back on here until this morning or I would of got this sooner, but I hope this advice helps.
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#23
06-11-2007, 08:35 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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[ QUOTE ] Don't tell her and start cheating more regularly so you can get some practice at not getting caught, [/ QUOTE ] haah awesome [/ QUOTE ] This is actually better then my advice. lol'd
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#24
06-11-2007, 09:15 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ] IF you're going to continue doing it, then just break up. Don't sit there and say you love her while you're [censored] behind her back and lying about it. Break up or stop cheating. You either want to be with her or you don't.
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06-11-2007, 10:15 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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[ QUOTE ] fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ] IF you're going to continue doing it, then just break up. Don't sit there and say you love her while you're [censored] behind her back and lying about it. Break up or stop cheating. You either want to be with her or you don't. [/ QUOTE ] I understand that idea that someone is responsible to choose one or the other for ethical reasons, but the last part of your statement is retarded: OP wants to be with her, and he also wants to bang other chicks.
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#26
06-11-2007, 10:31 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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[ QUOTE ] fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ] IF you're going to continue doing it, then just break up. Don't sit there and say you love her while you're [censored] behind her back and lying about it. Break up or stop cheating. You either want to be with her or you don't. [/ QUOTE ] Sad, sad, misguided soul. Why? Why should he break up with her? He can love her and still bang other women. Just because u have sex with another women doesn't mean u love the one u are with any less. Do u drive another car at your job? does that mean u like your own car any less? Do u ever eat different kinds of food? Does that mean u love your favorite food any less? Have u had more then one pet in your life? Does that mean u love the pet u had when u were alittle kid any less? U only get one shot at this world might as well enjoy it while u are here.
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#27
06-11-2007, 11:08 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
Quick question for those that are pro-cheating.
How would you feel if you found out that your long-time g/f had cheated on you? Would you tell them that you had cheated as well? Would you try to work through it or dump them immediately? What I'm basically getting at is whether or not you have a double standard (where you don't feel bad for cheating but would end a relationship if you caught your significant other cheating).
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#28
06-11-2007, 11:11 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
Cheating is for pussies who are afraid to be alone.
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06-11-2007, 11:21 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ] IF you're going to continue doing it, then just break up. Don't sit there and say you love her while you're [censored] behind her back and lying about it. Break up or stop cheating. You either want to be with her or you don't. [/ QUOTE ] Sad, sad, misguided soul. Why? Why should he break up with her? He can love her and still bang other women. Just because u have sex with another women doesn't mean u love the one u are with any less. Do u drive another car at your job? does that mean u like your own car any less? Do u ever eat different kinds of food? Does that mean u love your favorite food any less? Have u had more then one pet in your life? Does that mean u love the pet u had when u were alittle kid any less? U only get one shot at this world might as well enjoy it while u are here. [/ QUOTE ] this is deep as well as true. wow
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06-11-2007, 11:23 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ] IF you're going to continue doing it, then just break up. Don't sit there and say you love her while you're [censored] behind her back and lying about it. Break up or stop cheating. You either want to be with her or you don't. [/ QUOTE ] Sad, sad, misguided soul. Why? Why should he break up with her? He can love her and still bang other women. Just because u have sex with another women doesn't mean u love the one u are with any less. Do u drive another car at your job? does that mean u like your own car any less? Do u ever eat different kinds of food? Does that mean u love your favorite food any less? Have u had more then one pet in your life? Does that mean u love the pet u had when u were alittle kid any less? U only get one shot at this world might as well enjoy it while u are here. [/ QUOTE ] all of these examples are really [censored] stupid. sorry
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