Dancing at Parties/Clubs

[Awesemo]

We've all been at the type of party where most of the girls are dancing in groups amongst themselves. Usually, they are parties where not many people know each other. These girls are here to meet guys, but not any guys: hot guys. How do you convey to a girl that you're an attractive man by dancing?

There are several elements to this situation. The first element is the initial contact. Do you go up to a girl and ask her if she would like to dance, or do you go up to them and start dancing.

The second element and probably the hardest one is the actual dancing technique. How can you get really good at grinding? A man is supposed to lead in a dance, how does this happen while grinding? What techniques should you use?

The third element is isolating the girl so you can proceed how you want to. Once you're off the dance floor, should you just try to have stimulating conversation? Would you use an "opener" like we've discussed in terms of myspace to break the ice?

I feel like at any college, taking advantage of this situation is a really good way to get action. I'm really clueless how to be effective in this situation, it doesn't come naturally to me. How can you make a girl perceive you as an attractive guy from dancing?

[billygrippo]

drink a whole bunch, move out to the middle of the dance floor and start grinding every girl in sight at 2x speed of the music.

[Brainwalter]

Looks like you're doing OK to me.

[slickpoppa]

1. get drunk
2. go out on dance floor
3. go up to an attractive girl and start dancing near her
4. if she doesn't move away, just start grinding on her
5. if she moves away, find another girl
6. repeat until successful

[Evan]

[ QUOTE ]
1. get drunk
2. go out on dance floor
3. go up to an attractive girl and start dancing near her
4. if she doesn't move away, just start grinding on her
5. if she moves away, find another girl
6. repeat until successful

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For some reason step 4 really made me laugh. All joking aside, this process will probably get you laid relatively often.

[Eegs]

alcohol is probably the most important element of the equation. Make sure you're good and sloshed before approaching any female for a dance. To begin start with the less-attractive or heavier girls to get warmed up. As your beer balls kick in and your ego picks up it's time to move onto the more attractive girls. Keep moving up until you get turned down then stay within the range right below where you got turned down.
Never ask if a girl wants to dance unless you're wearing a fking tuxedo. She's just gonna think ur a lame and say no.
The trick in dancing is to let the girl do all the work. Let her dance on you while you kinda just stand behind her and two-step with a drink. Just don't be so offbeat that you [censored] her dancing up.
If you want to and she seems interested you can talk to her while dancing otherwise don't say shyt. Maybe exchange numbers or whatever and try to say something where she'll remember who you are.
Probably the most attractive things to girls is confidence, if you look like you know what you're doing you should be ok.

[Ness]

Also, make sure if things go well and you take her out for breakfast, that your purchase her a second meal so she has something to eat later in the day. If things go real well, you can just do here grocery shopping for her.

Right, eegs?

[meleader2]

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
1. get drunk
2. go out on dance floor
3. go up to an attractive girl and start dancing near her
4. if she doesn't move away, just start grinding on her
5. if she moves away, find another girl
6. repeat until successful

[/ QUOTE ]
For some reason step 4 really made me laugh. All joking aside, this process will probably get you laid relatively often.

[/ QUOTE ]

don't forget the key ingredient: making out! kiss her after a couple minutes, but don't go right in. kind of work your way up to it by moving ur face next to her's kind of like ur smelling her hair. if she responds OK, then go ahead and kiss her, close lipped first. if she resonds OK, go all out. also, if u get the feeling she does NOT want to kiss/ur uncomfortable with doing that then whisper [censored] in her ear such as the following:

"you're really hot"
"i really want to kiss you"
"i can't believe how attractive you are"
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really let her have it with compliments! after the dance do NOT leave her side. if you have to get a drink, MAKE HER GO WITH YOU, otherwise (this is usually the case with club situations) her friends/other guys will easily 80% of the time make a cockblock move.

[meleader2]

[ QUOTE ]
alcohol is probably the most important element of the equation. Make sure you're good and sloshed before approaching any female for a dance. To begin start with the less-attractive or heavier girls to get warmed up. As your beer balls kick in and your ego picks up it's time to move onto the more attractive girls. Keep moving up until you get turned down then stay within the range right below where you got turned down.
Never ask if a girl wants to dance unless you're wearing a fking tuxedo. She's just gonna think ur a lame and say no.
The trick in dancing is to let the girl do all the work. Let her dance on you while you kinda just stand behind her and two-step with a drink. Just don't be so offbeat that you [censored] her dancing up.
If you want to and she seems interested you can talk to her while dancing otherwise don't say shyt. Maybe exchange numbers or whatever and try to say something where she'll remember who you are.
Probably the most attractive things to girls is confidence, if you look like you know what you're doing you should be ok.

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bad move, no chick wants a sloppy dancer. slightly buzzed is > than obliterated, you want to perform later, right??

[Eegs]

vnh