6 max button play

[ntnBO]

Have been working on my 6 max play but progress is frustrating. Would like comments on what I consider to be a fairly straightforward hand. Would use the hand history converter but the site this hand came from is not supported.

Folded to hero on the button who raises with Ad 9d. SB 3-bets. BB folds. Hero calls.

Flop 4d 3d 2c. SB bets. Hero calls.

Turn Qs. SB bets. Hero raises. SB 3-bets. Hero calls.

River 9h. SB bets. Hero makes a crying call.

SB shows Qc Js and wins the pot.

I felt a turn raise was better than a flop raise in this situation. Had I not paired on the river it was an easy fold of course. Would any of you folded the river in my situation?

I am also wondering about my stats and how they compare to winning 6 max players. My initial thought is that my blind stats are acceptable but I don't win enough from the other 4 positions. My aggression level isn't overly high either but IMO in these very aggressive games many times(not always) it's good to simply call down with a marginal hand. Would anybody be willing to share some of their winning stats?

BO