2 hands in which I'm faced with 2 bets on the turn

[Tryptamean]

Hand 1: Villian (turn raiser) is juuiiice, other guy is a spaz , like 70/45/1 who is somewhat sane postflop (i.e. doesnt spew horribly with nothing). sorry for raw hh, converter didnt work

POKERSTARS GAME #13319574946: HOLD'EM LIMIT ($10/$20) - 2007/11/18 -
14:28:00 (ET)
Table 'Sy II' 6-max Seat #1 is the button
Seat 1: Tryptamean ($866.50 in chips)
Seat 2: gonzo1983 ($455 in chips)
Seat 3: playtight14 ($638.50 in chips)
Seat 4: fonzzyman ($339.50 in chips)
Seat 5: juuuiice ($503 in chips)
Seat 6: chmouchmou ($768.50 in chips)
gonzo1983: posts small blind $5
playtight14: posts big blind $10
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to Tryptamean [Qh Qd]
fonzzyman: calls $10
juuuiice: raises $10 to $20
chmouchmou: folds
Tryptamean: raises $10 to $30
gonzo1983: folds
playtight14: folds
fonzzyman: calls $20
juuuiice: calls $10
*** FLOP *** [2h Js 8c]
fonzzyman: bets $10
juuuiice: raises $10 to $20
Tryptamean: raises $10 to $30
fonzzyman: raises $10 to $40
Betting is capped
juuuiice: calls $20
Tryptamean: calls $10
*** TURN *** [2h Js 8c] [8s]
fonzzyman: bets $20
juuuiice: raises $20 to $40


Hand 2: This is a 50/100 game a few weeks ago. Villian (turn raiser) is stinkypete. Other guys seemed normal also. On this hand, I really hate my flop play. After so many bets went in preflop, I was concerned with AA/KK and pussed out. on a scale of 1-10, how bad is the flop play? What to do on turn as played?

Hero is UTG with QQ, 5 handed

Hero raises, CO 3bets, BTN coldcaps, SB calls 4, all call.

Flop: 832r,

checks to CO who bets, BTN calls, SB raise, Hero calls 2, CO 3bets, BTN folds, SB calls 1, Hero calls 1.

Turn: 8323

checks to CO who bets, SB raises, Hero ??