Mortgage Broker Disclosed Financial Info to Mutual Friend... My Play?

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Seriously, wtf?

For those who are unaware of my situation (the OP was quite a while ago), see here:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...age=0&vc=1

Anyway, quick update:

I still don't have access to the money, and based on the sound advice from many of you, I'm not even worried about it.

Regardless, a few months ago the wife and I decided it was time to buy a house. A good friend of mine referred me to a mortgage broker friend of his, who I had never met before. I checked him out, in addition to shopping around at other banks/CUs/brokers, and ended up going with him based on rates and general rapport.

Anyway, in order to process the paperwork, I submitted my last two years' tax returns, in which I filed as a professional gambler. Those tax returns included interest income from the T-bills and other investments, so the loan processor needed my 1099s for those. No problem; however, the 1099s also listed the total amounts held in the various investments, so my mortgage broker was able to view them before faxing them to the loan processor.

In addition, my father allowed me to take out $50,000 for a down payment on the house, which my mortgage broker also was aware of.

So, last night I'm at a bar celebrating my friend's birthday. Being that it is his birthday, he ends up getting pretty hammered and tells me that he knows all about the money I have and where the down payment came from, in an attempt to one-up me by telling me how much money his dad has which he will get some day.

I just acted cool, thought that my broker was a dick to do that, but whatever, and said "Great man, I'm glad you're set up" or something or other (I had a buzz on too).

Anyway, today it hits me. My friend is likely to tell others about my situation, because that's just the way he is. I don't want other people thinking that my daddy bought me this house, because he didn't. We did not need the $50k at all. Nevertheless, other people we know have been clearly jealous (we found the right house at the perfect time), and I know that becoming aware of my financial situation will give them an excuse to think less of me and my [mediocre] accomplishments.

Some of you will say "Who cares what others think?", but these are friends/acquaintances, not random people. My whole life, I've had to deal with people (classmates, mostly), who were jealous of my family's financial situation. My family isn't filthy rich by any means, but my Dad did well for himself. In fact, I have no idea how much my Dad is worth, but other people seem to think they know because of newspaper articles, public company reports, whatever. People are [censored] nosy, and I hate them for it.

Anyway, this seems like it could develop into a bad situation for me. I'm thinking my options are:

1. Brush it off and see what happens
2. Confront the bastard and tell him I don't appreciate what he did (pretty Gabriel, and will get nothing done imho).
3. Sue the [censored]

It's either #1 or #3 right now. The problem with #1 is that I think it's a bit weak to not do anything about it but, on the other hand, nothing bad may come of it anyway.

#3 seems harsh, and I don't even know the legal aspects of all of it, or if it's even worth it. Nevertheless, my broker [censored] up, and he shouldn't be allowed to do the same thing to others.

Suing the broker could also create a rift in friendships all over the place. Everyone would likely find out that I'm suing him, and why. He would clearly be pissed at me (we've developed somewhat of a friendship, although I don't really care), and would probably be pissed at the friend who he divulged the information to, who in turn told me. This would likely create a problem with our friendship as well.

I'm done typing... Every OP I make turns into a tl;dr.

So how would you handle this?