Tough hand for me

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These are the types of hands I have trouble with, not "omg I have 2 pair and raised on a 3 flush board" stuff. Some background: villain is 20/3 over a small number of hands. Recently in the session we played these two hands (at another table).

#1

Full Tilt Poker - No Limit Hold'em Cash Game - $0.50/$1 Blinds - 6 Players - (LegoPoker Hand History Converter)

SB: $114.70
Hero (BB): $100.00
UTG: $349.40
MP: $114.95
CO: $27.35
BTN: $144.15

Preflop: Hero is dealt J[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] A[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] (6 Players)
4 folds, SB calls $0.50, <font color="red">Hero raises to $4.00</font>, SB calls $3.00

Flop: ($8) 6[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img] 4[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] 5[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] (2 Players)
SB checks, <font color="red">Hero bets $6.00</font>, SB calls $6.00

Turn: ($20) 4[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] (2 Players)
SB checks, <font color="red">Hero bets $13.00</font>, SB calls $13.00

River: ($46) 8[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img] (2 Players)
SB checks, Hero checks

Pot Size: $46.00 ($2.30 Rake)

SB had 9[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] 6[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] (two pair, Sixes and Fours) and WON (+$20.70)
Hero had J[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] A[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] ([Jc Ac] a pair of Fours) and LOST (-$23.00)

#2

Full Tilt Poker - No Limit Hold'em Cash Game - $0.50/$1 Blinds - 5 Players - (LegoPoker Hand History Converter)

SB: $131.90
Hero (BB): $100.00
UTG: $353.05
CO: $114.95
BTN: $144.15

Preflop: Hero is dealt 8[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] A[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] (5 Players)
3 folds, SB calls $0.50, <font color="red">Hero raises to $4.00</font>, SB calls $3.00

Flop: ($8) 3[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] 8[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img] 7[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] (2 Players)
<font color="red">SB bets $4.00</font>, <font color="red">Hero raises to $20.00</font>, <font color="red">SB raises to $83.00</font>, <font color="red">Hero raises all-in to $96.00</font>, SB calls $13.00

Turn: ($200) A[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img] (2 Players - 1 All-In)

River: ($200) J[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] (2 Players - 1 All-In)

Pot Size: $200.00 ($3 Rake)

SB had 9[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] J[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] (a pair of Jacks) and LOST (-$100.00)
Hero had 8[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] A[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] (two pair, Aces and Eights) and WON (+$97.00)

So pretty sure a) he hates me b) he thinks I'm an over aggro donk.

The hand in question is below. Advice on all streets would be great.

Full Tilt Poker - No Limit Hold'em Cash Game - $0.50/$1 Blinds - 6 Players - (LegoPoker Hand History Converter)

SB: $35.45
BB: $113.70
UTG: $101.50
MP: $54.40
Hero (CO): $151.05
BTN: $91.60

Preflop: Hero is dealt T[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] T[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] (6 Players)
UTG folds, MP calls $1.00, <font color="red">Hero raises to $5.00</font>, BTN calls $5.00, 3 folds

Flop: ($12.50) 2[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] Q[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] 6[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] (2 Players)
<font color="red">Hero bets $9.00</font>, BTN calls $9.00

Turn: ($30.50) 9[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] (2 Players)
<font color="red">Hero bets $18.00</font>, BTN calls $18.00

River: ($66.50) 6[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] (2 Players)
Hero checks, <font color="red">BTN bets all-in for $59.60</font>, Hero folds
Uncalled bet of $59.60 returned to BTN

Pot Size: $66.50 ($3 Rake)