|
#1
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
so I ended up getting him HoH volume 1 for his birthday. [/ QUOTE ] I like this idea. It's a subtle hint, yet not insulting in any way. It's always difficult to talk to a friend about how bad they play (obviously) because you don't want to insult their intelligence. Buying him a book as a gift literally puts his problem into his own hands. As other people have said, he's an adult capable of making his own decisions. If you give him the chance to learn and get better, there's no excuse, and IMO nothing more that you can (or should) do. I'm in a somewhat similar situation as described in the OP, but much less intense. I have a friend (actually, one of my best friends) who is pretty bad at poker. We play $.1/.25 NLHE cash game at his request and insistence. We had played LHE and/or limit dealer's choice in the past, but now he insists on playing NLHE. Fortunately, I haven't had to take action because: 1. He's got a job 2. He has nobody to support 3. He will occasionally win (like one time in 10 he'll be up $30) 4. He usually stops buying in after $60 or $80. 5. A couple of the other players in the game aren't much better than he is (though they tend not to lose as much on average). To OP: I think you're doing the right thing by taking action, but you need to be careful to neither insult his intelligence nor make decisions for him. He is an adult, and in the end it's solely his responsibility and his decision to manage his money. It's too bad that he keeps rebuying. He must rebuy 6 or 7 times to get $150 in the hole. Maybe you could play shorter sessions to limit his potential loss. I think stopping the game when it gets to the point of having >4 people is a good idea. When it gets down to you, GoodP, and LAGP, it's one person losing a bunch of money, and two people feeling guilty about it. What fun is that? |
#2
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
I love that feeling where the guy rebuys for his last $23.75 and you get his very last bits of cheese.
|
#3
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
I love that feeling where the guy rebuys for his last $23.75 and you get his very last bits of cheese. [/ QUOTE ] As another poster said earlier, this would be okay if it is a game among strangers in a casino, but not when it is a game of friends and acquaintences at a home. |
#4
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
OP,
Is it more awkward that his wife is there as he's donking off? |
#5
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
Why don't you just Indecent Proposal him and play for the wife. Maybe that'll teach him a lesson.
|
#6
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
Why don't you just Indecent Proposal him and play for the wife. Maybe that'll teach him a lesson. [/ QUOTE ] Who do you think he is? Rick Solomon? |
#7
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] Why don't you just Indecent Proposal him and play for the wife. Maybe that'll teach him a lesson. [/ QUOTE ] Who do you think he is? Rick Solomon? [/ QUOTE ] I wouldn't play him for his current soon-to-be-ex at this point in her life. |
#8
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
Why don't you just Indecent Proposal him and play for the wife. Maybe that'll teach him a lesson. [/ QUOTE ] His wife is in her mid-40s, although still attractive (I'm 26). |
#9
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] Why don't you just Indecent Proposal him and play for the wife. Maybe that'll teach him a lesson. [/ QUOTE ] His wife is in her mid-40s, although still attractive (I'm 26). [/ QUOTE ] Young grasshopper, do not dismiss your elders, who have much to teach you. Remember, women hit their peak a lot later. |
#10
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Player really can\'t afford to play
[ QUOTE ]
OP, Is it more awkward that his wife is there as he's donking off? [/ QUOTE ] A bit, yes. But it is hilarious to here his excuse when he busts. One time he had like $80 behind, the pot was about $5 and GoodP pushed with JX on a 33JJ8 board. After about 5 minutes he calls with KK. For the next couple days all he talked about to his wife about how unlucky he was with pocket kings. |
|
|