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02-21-2007, 01:59 AM
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I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with them
is this a problem? i see it as one. i've had sex with 5 different girls. i've only wanted to talk to one of them the day after sex, and that was my girlfriend of 6 months. like a few weeks later, maybe ill feel like talking to them, but other than that i want nothing to do with them.
the girls seem to be really into me before and after sex, i'm kind of apathetic the entire time. they're all just kind of annoying after i blow my load. it seems like every time i hook up with them the following scenario plays out: i ignore their texts i go on aim a lot less eventually they corner me and ask me why im ignoring them i beat around the bush (lolololol) they're like i really like you at this point i get a vomit taste in my mouth and tell them i dont want anything to do with them. anyone else experiencing this ? i think it's linked with evolution. 
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#2
02-21-2007, 02:06 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with them
Um...
Maybe you are giving girls signals that you are really into them, when all you are after is sex. Try finding girls with similar 'hooking up' criteria as you. Leave the ones who want a relationship alone if you aren't looking for one.
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02-21-2007, 02:09 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with
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Um... Maybe you are giving girls signals that you are really into them, when all you are after is sex. Try finding girls with similar 'hooking up' criteria as you. Leave the ones who want a relationship alone if you aren't looking for one. [/ QUOTE ] I'm down for a relationship if i can find the right girl, im just starting to worry. I cant help but looking at them as various flavors, and i want to try as many as possible. *double standard* the girls that just want to hook up are [censored]. i dont know how to work around that
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02-21-2007, 02:20 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with
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bang them again? [/ QUOTE ] i can't even talk to them. just thinking about them makes me sick. i just dont want anything to do with them. banging is the last thing on my mind...with them
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#6
02-21-2007, 02:32 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with
heh, I kinda wanted to start the same thread but didn't want to come off like a jerk. I don't get a ton of ass, but whenever I do, the only thing I want is for them to get out of my bed and leave me alone. weird, I dunno. Lately I've been feeling really horrible about myself after I've been with someone. I hate it, and I don't know why it happens.
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02-21-2007, 02:35 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with
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heh, I kinda wanted to start the same thread but didn't want to come off like a jerk. I don't get a ton of ass, but whenever I do, the only thing I want is for them to get out of my bed and leave me alone. weird, I dunno. Lately I've been feeling really horrible about myself after I've been with someone. I hate it, and I don't know why it happens. [/ QUOTE ] my sentiments exactly. except i dont feel bad about it anymore.
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02-21-2007, 02:41 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with
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[ QUOTE ] heh, I kinda wanted to start the same thread but didn't want to come off like a jerk. I don't get a ton of ass, but whenever I do, the only thing I want is for them to get out of my bed and leave me alone. weird, I dunno. Lately I've been feeling really horrible about myself after I've been with someone. I hate it, and I don't know why it happens. [/ QUOTE ] my sentiments exactly. except i dont feel bad about it anymore. [/ QUOTE ] It's weird, I don't necessarily feel bad about it (like I don't feel bad for them or anything, and I don't think it bothers me on a moral level), I just get this gross feeling for a few days after.
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#10
02-21-2007, 03:04 AM
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Re: I keep hooking up with girls then not wanting anything to do with
I do the same thing all the time. I dont feel bad about it, and before I sleep with a girl I dont want to associate with (which are the only kind I sleep with apparently), I try to make it very clear to them that I just want to sleep with them and thats it.
However it still never works out and they always get angry sometime later in the future. I dont really worry about it though, but I sleep with girls far from my core group of friends.
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