OOT women, help me approach a delicate situation with my gf...

mbillie1 · #1 06-09-2007, 01:12 PM

OK so I've been going out with this girl for like 3 years. We're still close and whatever, but obviously it's past the "new relationship" stage. I noticed the other day that she hadn't shaved her armpit hair in like... probably 4 or 5 days, it was noticeable. Now, it's summertime so she's always wearing sleeveless shirts (tank tops, etc whatever) so that's sort of gross and embarrassing. In every other facet of her life she is immaculately groomed though, so this doesn't make a lot of sense to me... I mean she gets her eyebrows/nails done all the time, bathed, teeth brushed, etc... just lately has been too lazy to shave her pits regularly, and she has brown hair so you can see it. It's absolutely gross, even a little bit but it's like 1/8"-1/6" at this point.

So my question OOT, particularly OOT women, is how to I tactfully tell her to get on the ball and shave her pits already? She's pretty sensitive so I don't want to be like "yo that [censored] is gross, get a bic" but I mean... you don't want to sit in a restaurant with someone who's pit hair is visible. I don't get it, she's not a hippie, she shaves elsewhere regularly and effectively, wtf.

Help me OOT

HitHard69 · #2 06-09-2007, 01:17 PM

Grow a beard. She'll say "When are you going to shave that?" You then look at her and say "As soon as you shave that," and point to her pits.

Fast Food Knight · #3 06-09-2007, 01:19 PM

Lightheartedly tease her about it. Then say you're just joking. Rinse, repeat until she gets the point.

mbillie1 · #4 06-09-2007, 01:20 PM

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Lightheartedly tease her about it. Then say you're just joking. Rinse, repeat until she gets the point.

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"Hey Don King's in a headlock! Jk lawlz" ...

Seriously I have too mean a sense of humor for this I think

Fast Food Knight · #5 06-09-2007, 01:27 PM

OK. While watching a movie, point out some imperceptible armpit hair on a goodlooking female celebrity... express disgust... do this ad nauseum.

mbillie1 · #6 06-09-2007, 01:28 PM

Hmm that is a good idea... I will do that, ty

wet work · #7 06-09-2007, 01:28 PM

Nip it in the bud. Or else it's only a matter of time before she's taking dumps with the door open.

NT! · #8 06-09-2007, 01:42 PM

get over it. not a big deal.

mbillie1 · #9 06-09-2007, 01:45 PM

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get a girlfriend first. it is a big deal.

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FYP, since that [censored] is gross and saying it's "not a big deal" is like saying dating a chick who suddenly got ugly is not a big deal. Maybe not to you, but you aren't in this relationship last time I checked.

gumpzilla · #10 06-09-2007, 01:48 PM

I tend to agree with NT on this one, but if it is a big deal, why not just take a shower together and shave her your damn self? It takes about 1 minute.