***SSNL LIFE THREAD NOV***

[TheChad]

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Why do my internship rants never get any love. Or even attention, for that matter.

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bc not many of us have connections like that I'm assuming. I sure don't.

[traz]

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on that note, anyone want to live with me in vancouver? =/

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Uh... when? How easy is it to move there? I've been kinda itchin' to leave the States.

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January? You got 2 months to pack up sir. God knows what you need to do in terms of paperwork, you should probably get crackin though ;P

[Snipe]

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emo/women
I asked this girl out a couple weeks ago. She said she was really busy. We hung out for a bit this past Sunday and Tuesday. She is, by far and away, the cutest girl I've ever been in a dating situation with. BY FAR. just got out of a LTR. says she wants to just date for a while. She's always been a LTR girl.
I've always been an LTR guy. I swore off women after breakin with my ex in june and trying the dating thing for about three weeks. I keep sayin that I'll be waiting for the girl that blows me away. I really like this girl, but she seems to just want a casual date with whoever. I know another guy she's "seeing" and he's kind of a tool. Not a bad guy, just not a good one (read: I'm cocky in saying I'm WAY better for her than he is). He's a climber like I am, but again, not a good one. Kind of pisses me off that she just wants to date guys and not a guy.
thoughts? my play? jibberish?
I'm thinking I'll just chill as I have a bet anyway that I'll NOT have a reg girlfriend until at least Dec (made it beginning of August). She's taking off for a week (t-giving) to see her family. Meh, I'll take her out one more time before she leaves. Call her when she gets back.
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Tough spot. TBH - if you're an LTR guy, it means you get very attached, likely easily, and enjoy being comfortable. Not a bad thing at all (actually, probably an asset as you move forward in life) - HOWEVER, it also means that you don't have the luxury of taking these situations for what they are - casual.

There is NO WAY TO GET THIS EXCLUSIVE - at least not right now. If you can handle that and won't tear yourself up when she doesn't answer your calls wondering what she's doing, getting jealous, etc - than it's a good situation. You can hang out when you have time - enjoy each others company, maybe do the secks - all the while continuing to look for 'the one who blows you away.'

If you can't handle it, you need to let her know that you're not going to compete with some toolbox and that you hope you two can get together a bit further down the road when your interests are more aligned. That way you come off as the good, honest guy you are and save youself a) an opportunity with her on your terms b) the stress of competing for a chick in a game where she sets the rules and you're constantly at a disadvantage by virtue of evening agreeing to compete.

Be very honest with yourself about what you want / can deal with.

GL

[Chaos_ult]

I just had berrywise for the first time last night

I think it's really good...but not as a chugging beer obviously

It goes perfectly with a nice fatty though

[Keyser.]

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heh, I was at a wedding about two months ago. bridesmaids are SO hot being dirty in their dresses. It's like great Italian food, but better.

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lolll what? Can't say I get this analogy

[TheChad]

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heh, I was at a wedding about two months ago. bridesmaids are SO hot being dirty in their dresses. It's like great Italian food, but better.

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lolll what? Can't say I get this analogy

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I can't really explain it without getting too graphic for the mods. suffice it to say that if you've had GREAT Italian food (like homemade from an Italian woman) then this was better. (albeit similar as we had just finished eating Italian food. DAMMIT! I'm hungry now!)

[Suigin406]

too graphic?? me confused

[keikiwai]

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on that note, anyone want to live with me in vancouver? =/

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Yes.

But it's probably not feasible for me.

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Canada?

i'm in Portland starting December.... which is 20 minutes away from Vancouver, WASHINGTON

[keikiwai]

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too graphic?? me confused

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let's not elaborate, DUCY?

[goofyballer]

Haha, I did a phone interview with HP and they were like "btw you know we're in Vancouver, WA, not Canada, right?"