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Old 11-19-2007, 08:22 PM
Henry17 Henry17 is offline
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It really depends. For some people meeting the family is a big deal. Others bring home people and it is no big deal. It really depends on the family. As Kimbell stated at this point you don't have a choice so don't over think it.

A few years back an EX invited me to Thanksgiving dinner and when I got there it was her, me and her new BF.

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evil, imo.

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I found it strange but not evil. If anyone should have been angry it should have been her new BF. The whole family kept making him feel inferior esp the EX. If the roles had been reversed I would have walked out. I felt sorry for the guy.
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Old 11-19-2007, 08:32 PM
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Holy crap, You're overanalyzing the situation.

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Old 11-19-2007, 08:43 PM
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holy crap you're so gay.

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To be fair... to me... meeting the family is a REALLY big deal to me. Only a handful of people I know... and even fewer girls that I've dated, have ever met my familia...
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Old 11-19-2007, 08:48 PM
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FWIW I don't think it's that big a deal.
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Old 11-19-2007, 08:51 PM
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Default Re: To soon to meet the family????

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It really depends. For some people meeting the family is a big deal. Others bring home people and it is no big deal. It really depends on the family. As Kimbell stated at this point you don't have a choice so don't over think it.

A few years back an EX invited me to Thanksgiving dinner and when I got there it was her, me and her new BF.

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evil, imo.

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I found it strange but not evil. If anyone should have been angry it should have been her new BF. The whole family kept making him feel inferior esp the EX. If the roles had been reversed I would have walked out. I felt sorry for the guy.

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W T F
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Old 11-20-2007, 03:35 AM
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Default Re: To soon to meet the family????

Meeting her parents and immediate family is way different from meeting her extended family at thanksgiving. I would never go to a thanksgiving (assuming there will be ~30 people there) unless I had been dating a girl at least a few months. In your situation I would readily meet her immediate family.
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Old 11-20-2007, 04:58 AM
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ok, i'm gonna be blunt...but you are dumb. you have NO idea how lucky you are to have a GF, seriously dude- that close w/the last 2 exs and she is cool. Do whatever she wants. From now on. she is a rare find. ASK her what she wants re: coming to the dinner. Say you're cool either way. i so would not date you. i like appreciation. and sorry but i think you are gay.
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Old 11-20-2007, 08:40 AM
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The last girl I dated wanted me to meet her family on date 2. Yeah, that didn't happen.
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Old 11-20-2007, 03:40 PM
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ok, i'm gonna be blunt...but you are dumb. you have NO idea how lucky you are to have a GF, seriously dude- that close w/the last 2 exs and she is cool. Do whatever she wants. From now on. she is a rare find. ASK her what she wants re: coming to the dinner. Say you're cool either way. i so would not date you. i like appreciation. and sorry but i think you are gay.

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You're correct... I'm going.
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Old 11-20-2007, 03:51 PM
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ok, i'm gonna be blunt...but you are dumb. you have NO idea how lucky you are to have a GF, seriously dude- that close w/the last 2 exs and she is cool. Do whatever she wants. From now on. she is a rare find. ASK her what she wants re: coming to the dinner. Say you're cool either way. i so would not date you. i like appreciation. and sorry but i think you are gay.

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You're correct... I'm going.

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Let us know how it goes. Hopefully it's booze/football!
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