Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex

[aladare]

god, i don't wanna agree w/ads but yeah.

if there is no emotion, then oral is way more intimate b/c your [censored] is in my mouth not my box.

Tuq,
your poll excludes women. sexist ban! I don't wanna lunch at the Y..but maybe i would like an option 3.
also, oral sex is a stepping stone?? there should also be another choice, of oral sex being intimate, more than sex..not a stepping stone to sex. I suppose girls have a much more intimate role in oral sex than a guy eating ya out...so hmm...i think i will be in the minority on this one.