Ugh, females :( - help me decide

[soon2b]

Ok, so im in a pretty messed up situation now... Here is the history. 2 girls, Peanut Butter, and Jelly. I dated PB for 2 1/2 years. I just met Jelly, and she was the one that was really helping me get over PB(PB and I broke up 6 mo. ago)

Dating PB was pretty amazing, she was a great girl, I loved her family, my family loved her, etc. She did kiss 2 guys while we dated, and I did cheat, and it was somewhat worse. When we broke up, it all came out. Anyways, we ended up breaking up because I was not giving her enough attention(poker, and school, mostly poker though) and because she met a new guy(thats what happens when you dont give girls enough attention, and this is what im going through now, will explain later.) Other factors were that she was a freshman in college, and I could be a bit controlling at times. I broke up with her when she met some guy and wanted to start talking to him, and that was that. Never saw her again after I walked out that night. Now she is dating that guy she met, but it took 5 months for them to officially be dating, and now he is back in his hometown, a good 700 mi. away, and is not returning to the college PB is at.

Jelly is some girl I met at a party, she is good friends with one of my best friends, yet I had never met her before. She called my friend that night and told her she thought I was hott and wanted to hang out with me sometime. I ended up contacting her and we hung out. Week 1 with her was amazing, wed see each other alot, it was great. I was really falling for her and forgetting about my ex. We talked towards the end of that week and she said she didnt want a BF but she met me and shes changed her mind. She wants to take things slow, but she really likes me and wants a relationship, a serious one and wants to make it work when we go off to school(wed be abt an hour away from each other).

Then, he friends came in from college. She started being distant, we werent hanging out much anymore, I would rarely talk to her, etc. When they went back, we hung out some the week before I left for florida, and things were a bit weird. She explained the night I got to florida that it was because her ex bf had been talking to her, they went to a baseball game together and he said he wanted to hold her and kiss her and be with her etc. She said no, they left the game early. She was quite upset about the whole situation and didnt udnerstand why they couldnt just be friends. Well, this affected things between her and I.

The next night she was visiting her friends college, and I guess she ended up kissing some guy who came up to their car and asked her to kiss him because he just got out of the navy. What a dbag. Anyways, she did. Her bro, who loves me was pissed. I was cold as hell the next day towards her, but we talked that night, she was very upset, said if I had kissed another girl while in florida she would be really upset too even though she said she wouldnt.

After that, the rest of the vaca was good, she was texting me and calling me alot, being really cute. Saying how she couldnt wait for me to get home, etc. Saying how she wanted to sex me up when we get back(oh yea, forgot to mentioned, she used to be pretty slooty after her and her ex broke up[they dated 3 years, similar to my situation I guess], when we first started hanging out I almost sexed her up, but didnt because idk... im a pussy and really like the girl didnt wanna ruin [censored]) Anyways the slootiness is a concern, but oh well.

I came home saw her for 5 min the day I got back we hugged, made out, then she had to go to her girlfriends birthday dinner. Since then we havent talked much, I havent seen her, etc. She lives a min away and cant find time to just say hi. Shes let me down twice since ive been back already(been back since friday) as far as hanging out goes. Today I was supposed to babysit with her early this morning, but she wants me to come at like 5 now... another big let down. It seems like she doesnt want to see me as much as I want to see her, but she is actually very busy working and such. Maybe I just expect too much because of my last relationship?

Well, one night I was really depressed and she wasnt giving me any attention, and frankly just being a bitch. We do usually just text and talk on the phone maybe once a day, but normally just text. Text messages can easily be taken the wrong way, and that does tend to happen with me, expecially because I have this problem of looking into things way too much. Anyways, I called my ex gf.

My ex had tried texting me a few times wanting to be friends and such over the past month since ive been talking to Jelly. I finally broke down and called her. We talked for 4 hours. Basically, she said she knew it wasnt gonna work with her current bf bc hes away for good now. She said if we got together again itd prob be alot better(i sort of agree, ive been thinking alot about it lately). She has asked to hang out a few times since this past saturday when we talked. I am afraid to let her back in my life, but slowly am. I dont know what to do

Cliff Notes:

Long relationship with Peanut Butter, ended kind of bad
-Didnt give enough attention, she was freshman in college wanting to have fun. Lack of attention resulted in her meeting a guy and wanting to pursue things with him. Theu are now dating but she said it wont work. Our relationship was amazing for the most part. Now she is all partied out, is doing well in shcool, and I feel i can really trust her and think if we did get back together, things could really work out...

Jelly is this really cool, funny girl I met that really was helping me get over my ex. She seems to push me away at times, and some of my friends think shes jerking me around. She has a history of being slooty, but hasnt been for like 3 months now. She wants to take things slow, and doesnt want a bf now but eventually does want to be with me. She is always busy with work and friends and such so I tend to get let down alot when trying to hang out with her. It seems like she doesnt want to see me as bad as I want to see her. Seems like every time she pushes me away to the point where im gonna stop talking to her, she redeems herself... Oh yah, she is hotter than my ex(my ex is still really cute though)

What do I do? Who do I choose?

Peanut Butter
Jelly
Both? (I could prob play both of them, but I am afraid I might start to get attached, esp to my ex...)

[diebitter]

You might want to repost this in the thread below, the 2+2 ladies often visit it and comment:


http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/showfl...e=0#Post9755451

[Triumph36]

wow your cliffs notes were even tl;dr

sounds [censored] but hire an editor first, jesus

[Skoob]

tl;dr

and

tl;dr again

Sum up your summation, plz kthxbai.

[prodonkey]

I didn't read past the first sentence.. but obviously you need to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.

[holyfield5]

cliff notes plz

[lostsoul]

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I didn't read past the first sentence.. but obviously you need to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.

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Beat me to it.

[piiop]

i didn't read the post...but neither

[soon2b]

There are cliff notes...

[adsman]

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There are cliff notes...

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Those cliff notes are longer than most OP's. Mind you, that's not saying much these days.