Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex

[EvanJC]

Strongly disagree

[XXXNoahXXX]

For me, the order of intimacy goes.

Kissing<<<<BJ<<<<<Sex&l t;<<<<<holding hands<<<<<<going down on her.

Obviously this is completely based in a male donimated POV where a girl putting my dick in her mouth until it shoots a foreign bodily fluid into her throat isn't that intimate, but me going down on her is like something I'll do once we're officially dating.

[XXXNoahXXX]

FWIW I have had sex with a fair amount of girls and

50% of the time I got a BJ on a prior occasion

of the times when sex came the first hookup, I got some head first in 85% of the time.

I don't think I've gone down on a girl until we have already had sex at least once.

[ConstantineX]

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For me, the order of intimacy goes.

Kissing<<<<BJ<<<<<Sex&l t;<<<<<holding hands<<<<<<going down on her.

Obviously this is completely based in a male donimated POV where a girl putting my dick in her mouth until it shoots a foreign bodily fluid into her throat isn't that intimate, but me going down on her is like something I'll do once we're officially dating.

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I bet you could cut that down to a couple of arrows, and still get your point across!

[XXXNoahXXX]

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For me, the order of intimacy goes.

Kissing<<<<BJ<<<<<Sex&l t;<<<<<holding hands<<<<<<going down on her.

Obviously this is completely based in a male donimated POV where a girl putting my dick in her mouth until it shoots a foreign bodily fluid into her throat isn't that intimate, but me going down on her is like something I'll do once we're officially dating.

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I bet you could cut that down to a couple of arrows, and still get your point across!

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i bet you're right!

[ConstantineX]

Noah,

Mechanical like or real soulful-like with the eyes and dirty talk and [censored]?

[RunDownHouse]

tuq,

I had a pretty successful college career and have lived with the girl I plan to marry for a few years now. I think penetration is more intimate and, despite how flippant it's become around here, it's really not even close.

[XXXNoahXXX]

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tuq,

I had a pretty successful college career and have lived with the girl I plan to marry for a few years now. I think penetration is more intimate and, despite how flippant it's become around here, it's really not even close.

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I think its easy to give penetration meaning if its in a relationship that builds up to sex. Then she is giving herself to you, etc. Obviously the same doesn't work quite as well for oral since its viewed as an ancillary, purely for pleasure thing.

When it comes to a random girl, putting you condom-covered penis inside of her isn't nearly as intimate as having your face between her legs with all sorts of juices running all over you into your mouth.

[XXXNoahXXX]

[yjbrewer]

Why [censored] and sweat when sucking dick is the same affect?